getting pregnant....
By dhysanne
@dhysanne (449)
Philippines
7 responses
@mgopionline (7)
• India
30 Jan 10
1. without a father the child will get angry on his/her mother.
2. The child must grow up with the parents this is the happy life.
3. The child must know about the world, parents are the good teacher in his life. If it fails his/her life will spoil
@dhysanne (449)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
Not every child will get angry with his mother, it really depends on how the mother teaches her child good things, including loving his father even without his presence. Growing up having his parents makes child happy, which is true. But for some people, they can still be happy having their single parent.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! have a nice day!
@StarBright (2798)
• United States
30 Jan 10
The most important thing is for the expected child to be wanted and loved unconditionally once he or she is born. To marry or not is a decision the mother must make for herself just as she must make decisions about her body and her unborn child. Only she can know if she is truly ready for motherhood and all that it means. Don't get me wrong. Fathers are very important and it is great to share the experience of parenthood. However, ultimately, mothers need to know that come rain or shine, they should be there for their children. If you find a man that loves you and feels the same way then maybe you will want to marry him. Good luck and God bless.
@beatrizguiselle (1118)
• Spain
28 Jan 10
Yes it is perfectly fine. Marriage indeed gives you more "support" depending on the marriage, but having a kid without being married is perfectly fine, there is nothing better in life than to create another.
@MAllen400 (829)
•
28 Jan 10
Thirty years ago the answer would have been a definate NO but now no one minds.
My daughter got pregnant before she got married and has given me a beautiful Grand daughter.
Where the problem might come in is telling Mum and Dad! Dont matter how much you love them and them you you do feel so my daughter said you have let them down but believe me they give a big cuddle and picture their Grandchild in their arms.
Happiness all around.
If you are talking about yourself I wish you and the baby every happiness and lots of cuddles. x
@luvlymee26 (326)
• Indonesia
28 Jan 10
For me no, because i live in a culture that really consider "pregnant before married" as a shame. To many things we have to face if that thing happen to us. And people around us here will judge us as a sinner. And how about if the boy leave you with baby inside you. That will be hard situation for me. So i prefer to get pregnant after married.
@marriedman111399 (1207)
• United States
28 Jan 10
It does not matter to me but I would hate for a child to grow up without a father. I know alot of girls that got pregnant and once the guy finds out that she is pregnant then they are out of here. They dont want any thing to do with a baby at there age. I also know of girls that get pregnant and the guy is going to stay around and help with the child and possibly merry the girl. I think that is good for the child that he or she has both a mom and dad in their life. I know a few girls that are really having problems supporting a child on there own. I would say that a woman only get pregnant if they are going to get married.
