why do people cried when they will separated?

South Korea
January 28, 2010 4:41pm CST
yesterday i was surprised when my superior told me, that its my last day of working coz our employer sold it.in other words all of us will be separating...i just smile when i heard the news coz im planning to resign too,but i dont have a courage to do it.in my surprised my superior cried when im about to go out...she told me she hate to say goodbye to me so i embraced her not cry and i promised to call her,what do you think a person cried when they say goodbye? pls.share
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14 responses
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
28 Jan 10
Because I guess, the thought of being seperated? The thought of change, and not being able to do things that you guys used to do before. Something like that. I feel sad too when I'm seperated from someone....change is something that I don't like. lol.
• South Korea
29 Jan 10
yes,thats true thanks for responding
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
Not a problem.
29 Jan 10
Well, this depends on every individual :) and maybe you were a nice person, a fun person ..a good company . It's not always the same , it just happens .. some people are a little bit too emotional . After all , you've "won" a potentially friend ...see the good part and if you decided to call her in the near future, i don't see any problems ..
• South Korea
29 Jan 10
yes, and im so proud of it..thanks
@deenaly (162)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 10
If you have developed a certain fondness to any one if your life, I'm sure you'll be crying as well, especially if that person is moving away. Yes, we can always connect with the person that we really fond of, but it'll never be the same as when that person is still with you.
• South Korea
29 Jan 10
thank you
@edu4625 (188)
• United States
29 Jan 10
Everyone feels emotional about something. There is always a situation, person, thing etc that can make a person feel emotional. In this case your supervisor might have cried because she is an emotional person or feels an emotional connection to the job. Perhaps she has been at that job for a long time and had more to lose than you if she was laid off. She may have even been crying because she cared for many people there and was going to miss them or her work. I usually cry when I say goodbye because I am not ready completely to let go of someone. I would still like to be with this person(s) but I cannot so I cry out of some sadness even if there is a good or positive reason for me separating from them.
• South Korea
29 Jan 10
yes ..thank you
@iharidh (309)
• Indonesia
29 Jan 10
I think it's quite normal. Because it shows that the people have emotional binding in their heart. This doesn't always mean lover when we talk about emotional binding. Friends and mates can have strong emotional binding also.
• South Korea
29 Jan 10
yes, i do believe that too..thanks
@dreamnishu (1253)
• China
29 Jan 10
When cry when we got hurt or we feel bed for someone or somethings. You know sometime we cry when we miss someone. Your friend was crying as she will miss you so much.
• South Korea
29 Jan 10
yes, i think so thanks
@kquiming (2999)
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
because it's like weaning a baby from using baby bottles. the changes are drastic and emotionally, it's not easy to take it and adjust abruptly. it's a human fact that we get attached to things, people, activities, etc that we're used to having around. and breaking that attachment causes some kind of pain that triggers the tears
• South Korea
29 Jan 10
thanks for sharing
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
goodbye's are the hardest thing you could do. It really hurts to say goodbye to people especially to those you love. When you get separated even if it's just temporary, you will feel sad that's why you cry. When someone leaves you behind your heart is torn into pieces and you woldn't know what to do after that. It could also be that you have done a lot of things together and you will miss all that.
• South Korea
29 Jan 10
ye, your right too..thanks
@magsun (7)
• China
29 Jan 10
generally speaking, young ages don't hate sperating, but older ages do in other round.
• South Korea
29 Jan 10
oh..yes
@Hazelrose (2186)
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
Hi marketing07,I think,it is natural feelings as a human.We can feel what happens or it's just a feeling of longingness to a person whom you've been for many days.Good day!
• South Korea
29 Jan 10
yes i do feel that she likes me to work with, thank you
@jilshi (271)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 10
it is hard to say goodbye since all of you used to be together for so many years. i am sure all of you gain so much good and bad memories as well. sure you will miss all the happy and stupid moments. if i were you, i felt touched because my employer cried for me. i will keep in touch with him.
• South Korea
29 Jan 10
oh yes. thanks
@meticulo (1286)
• United States
29 Jan 10
I guess it's just a normal reaction since you are already attached to your colleagues. Imagine everyday you see and talk to each other. You already form a bond which will definitely affect your emotions during separation moments. It's not bad to cry. I guess it will be advisable since it's not good to hide emotions. It will hurt you even more. So just let the tear goes down don't stop it and prepare yourself to move on. It's not that easy to do but I guess it's a good way to deal with separation anxiety.
• South Korea
29 Jan 10
yeah,thanks
@blummus (452)
• United States
29 Jan 10
A lot of people make friends at work; sometimes their work friends are their only friends. When you have to leave people you like and respect, there's an emptiness, and if you don't have many friends outside work, the loss can be particularly hard. Your supervisor may also be the sort of person who cries easily at emotional times. I suggest you keep in touch. She and others can help you network to find another job soon and give you a professional reference which could help in getting the next job. Don't blow off people you've worked with but who don't want to say good-bye. They can be your lifeline to your next employment and you can help them as well. All the best to you and your co-workers.
• South Korea
29 Jan 10
yeah i believe that too..thanks a lot
@EARLZHAN (938)
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
Hi.. there friend.. I've been separated with my close friends several times. Yes, sometimes it is really hard to say good bye to the person who is really close to you. It happens because we think that all the things that we can do together before will come into end already. You may even see each other rarely because of that. However, we need to understand that in our life people around us will just come and go. They might stay for a month, a year, a decade but then time will come that you have to say good bye to them. That means that they already play their part in our life. Everything happens for a purpose.
• South Korea
29 Jan 10
oh yeah, i do believe too that all thing happen in a purpose...thanks