do you belive that young single man could truly love the older married woman?
@aaronaguinaldo (33)
Philippines
January 30, 2010 4:50am CST
i always ask myself that it is possible that a young man will truly love te older woman whose already married. I have who had her relationship with a younger man. She 's married around 25 yrs with her husband and family live happily together but had relationship with a 28 yrs old man. I just wonder if this guy is really in love with this woman who is married. Until one time i met this man and talk about the relationship with my friend and asked him if he really in love my friend because i could not believe it. He was always answered to me that i should not judge the feelings he had with my friend. I really amazed that he had told to me about their on going relationship. They are both open with this relationship my friend always tells her man that he can do what he wants to do with his future. He can find his future woman for life because she is happy with the man and the man should deserve his happiness with the other woman if time comes. Still gives his freedom to do so says the woman. What do you think?
8 responses
@abhi_bangal (3686)
• India
2 Feb 10
There are some examples of what you are saying which are very true to real life. I too have very often heard these news items about such couples and have even seen them. Now I don't know how this happens and why such relationships go off well. But what I conceive is that they might be liking the rather 'non-experienced' guys who they think can love them in a rather different way. Now what the difference is the women know best. Each one has their own way of looking into a matter. Women might be no exception too. But I wonder how there is such a great percentage of this!
@temilolusolo (37)
• Nigeria
31 Jan 10
I consider it madness for a young single man to be in love with an older married woman.When there are still plenty of single ladies around who are ready to fall in love and eventually get married.
@ziyadahinc212 (552)
• United States
30 Jan 10
At first "YES" but, after sometime has passed I don't think so. Most MEN are 'hardwired' to "BED" as many women as possible. Thats not to say that THEY won't find TRUE LOVE with an OLDER WOMAN it just means he'll get BIGGER NOTCHES on his belt to brag about after the relationship is over!
@MimiRemo (418)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
That can happen. Sometimes, we tend to find love in people with similar qualities as that of our mother's composure or father's coolness, so younger men can also fall in love with older women. As to sincerity, there are really some who would just take advantage of a woman's loneliness or urge for new vigor. But there are still those who really sees true love in that kind of relationship.
@mlno054321 (212)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
yes ofcourse i do believed , because you if you fall in love with somebody else you will be ignored his/her age even though you love him, and besides we all know that age doesn't matter.
@brymel25 (285)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
Hi! I think nothing is really impossible when it comes to love. Love is an abstract noun, and so is the feeling. When we are in love, it seems that we cannot find the right words to explain the feeling. Once again,Nothing is absolutely impossible. We could see other people falling in love with someone who's blind or physically handicapped. Indeed, Love knows no boundaries.
@Ingkingderders (3832)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
I think it is possible. I mean this is love we are talking about, and we all know that in love, nobody could really say when, why, or who are you going to be in love with and whom are you going to spend your future with. I think there are really odd pairs out there, but it's possible. 
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
That's really unsual. I often see younger women with older men but not younger men with older women. I dont judge their feelings because it could be really true. If you think he's is happy then be happy for him. My sister ain't married yet and she's already over 35 years old and she's going out or dating with younger men and at first I really find it odd but she seems happy so its okay. As long as you know that they are being taken cared of and not treated badly then just ne happy for them.
