what do you with your friend??

Indonesia
January 30, 2010 4:03pm CST
you have friend that so close with you.but you know that he was stingy.when he borrow your money,it was so difficult to get your money back.in your opinion, if he want to borrow money to me, which better i borrow his or not??
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6 responses
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
31 Jan 10
Unfortunately, sometimes this is the risk you have to take when you want friends is a lot of times when they want to borrow $$ from you, knowing whether or not it is OK to lend it, and if it will bring hardship later on as well. I have learned many times when it comes to lending money, it is something to never be able to expect to get back. It should be considered a Gift... and if they ever do try and pay you back, consider it a Bonus.
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
My opinions is, if I don't lend him money, I'd feel guilty (if this person is someone I consider a close friend, that is). so if he really needs it i'll lend him some or even give it for free. If it's really that important.
@lymevat (47)
• United States
30 Jan 10
well, i'd like to help friends when they in need. but sometimes, some of our friends are stingy or hard return the money. we dont like this siduation happen.so, in my apinion, it depend on what kind of friends want to borrow money from me. if he is my best friend or the guy i true, i will borrow him the money. if he is not my best friend or i know less about the him, i won't borrow him money. sometimes, if a friend does need help but i am not sure weather i can trust him or not, probobiily, i may burrow him some money. hower, the amount of the money is as limit as i can donate. it just my apinion, hope it is useful for you.
@alfroi635 (297)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
If have a fiend like that, I will let him borrow first my money to him for the first time. The time he will not pay this money, he cannot borrow money from me anymore. But the friendship is still there, I will always consider this person as my friend.
@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
30 Jan 10
First of all i don't have such a friend who are stingy. As he is your friend so you can help him. And you can also get a help from your friend. I will do the same things what i am telling you. Though i don't like to borrow money from anyone. But sometime i did.
• China
31 Jan 10
I don't have such a friend being so stiny. Most of friends are always generous,and i am always get help from them.Of course,I never forgot to pay back to them. Do what you can do to help your friends,after all,he needs your help and will return you twice.That's my opinion.just fyi.