.. i am the best of eveyone else .. in everything i do ..

Malaysia
January 31, 2010 2:53am CST
have u met someone who is "the best" in everything they do .. they also judge us an condemn us to be a "fool" without telling us directly .. and some of this people r not qualified to judge but they do .. i really hate them but i just dont argue at all with them , all i do is "pretend stupid" they seem to cook the best food, there goes "jamies"carrer they seem to judge all 'american idol' contestants or even on the judges too .. what they wear is the best from the rest it irritates even further when u know they are actually 'not qualified' .. they even compete on sickness.. if we r sick, they thing of it as "no big deal" as they have the worst of those sickness .. recently when i broke a bone in my leg and had to insert screw, they even commented .. 'no need one, just massage only', so that doctor who is a specialist n best in town is "stupid" ~ now when i limp to avoid putting full weight on the food, they force me to walk .. and the 'look' on the face puts tru messages like 'she is so pretencious' Uggggggh .. how i wish i can tell thm off
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10 responses
@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
31 Jan 10
Why dont you they dont have your leg and they really dont know how it feels for you to do this. I know they have to do some therapy and the forcing of the walk MIGHT help in long run but I wouldnt let them push you to more than what you can do. Like when they were steaching my arms and shoulder they tore the rotor cuff but oh no they werent takeing the blame. So they sent me to another therapy place and i continued gettting steached where they forced the arm way up over head and put pressure on it . Well when I left I had to pull to the side of the road till the sickness passed I felt faint . No I didnt but felt like it I couldnt drive for 15 mins just set there till all past. When I went back I told them how sick it made me thats when they decided I needed and MRI to find whaqts wronf thats when they foiund I had a tore rotor cuff. Then I had to go for different therapy of heat ice and electic massage. I finally stopped going and it finally healed its self so now I do have fulol movement of both arms. Do it at your pace not thiers.
• Malaysia
1 Feb 10
yup dear .. the situation is worst if they are professionals .. when i was looking for a gynae ~ my friends recommened oly to go for the 'male' as they were more gentle with us, they advised me that most ladies r more 'rough' because they seem to know how extend is the pain - true to their words my gynae was so very gentle n always asked if there was pain while his nurse was a 'pain' i can relate to that pain u are talking about ~ i had those moments. tears dropping down my cheeks with no contol cheers
@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
1 Feb 10
sad I didnt get a male one sigh. No tears but that faint and throwing up feeling I think is just as bad. Glad I stopped it and got the other therapy!
@vandana7 (62278)
• India
31 Jan 10
Hi sanjana, I had somebody like that! Actually dad's friend's daughter-in-law. The girl never worked in her entire life, and she came to me for the first time in her 25 odd years of married life. Immediately she decided she is gonna look after me. I told her I had other arrangements, but she said nothing doing, I am the one who decides. She said I didnt know you all are so good (read you all had something that could be inherited) lol. Incidentally, this girl never looked after her inlaws, but was desperate to look after me. lol. She'd never contacted me in those 25 years! I categorically asked her if she'd done some postgraduation in giving the degrees of "good", considering the fact that she does not qualify as good in my eyes. he he.
• Malaysia
31 Jan 10
hope u got rid of that "b" if u dont mind me calling her that .. i have seen a few like that, my dads brother (my uncle) takes care of his mother in law, drives around some old ladies in the own BUT he says his mother (my grandmom)) does deserve his services because she is 'bad' ~ yes she is but strangers instead of ur own mother .. is sad
@vandana7 (62278)
• India
31 Jan 10
No sanjana, I called her exactly that. LOL. Otherwise, she was on phone for full hour or so! Greedy b*. :) I am coming to your place, you dont know me, and stuff like that. It was terrible for both my papa and me. :) Her brother still tries to behave with this overfamiliarity!
• United States
1 Feb 10
oh yea.i know a few guitarists that while brilliant,will never go anywhere because of their "better than thou" attitude. they can't work with anyone peaceably because they find one fault or another with them,band after band after band.
• Malaysia
4 Feb 10
you got the right word .. they always find fault of others ... not enough of belittleling
@MimiRemo (420)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
I've encountered some people like that, alright. They are just so self-righteous, when in fact, they usually pick on people who they think could be better than them. So, they bring them down before they could step up. I know it's downright annoying, but as much as I can, I don't let their arrogance and my irritation towards them get to me. I just mind my own business.
• Malaysia
4 Feb 10
who knows they could also e the best in "minding own business " ~ lol
@verabear (797)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
Those people are probably insecure that's why they always put others down. They need that to feel superior and to have validation. I think though that it is also possible that they are not aware of what they are doing. So go ahead and tell them off, in a nice way at first. who knows, you might end up helping them :)
• Malaysia
4 Feb 10
knowing this people almost all my life ..i will never ever be good in anything
@gabs8513 (48764)
• United Kingdom
31 Jan 10
I have only ever known one Person like that and never want to know someone like that again After 8 months I finally told them to stop being so big headed and to come down from their High Horse After that I would not have anything to do with this Person as they where depressing me
• Malaysia
4 Feb 10
oh ! how i wish i can tell off this people out there
• United States
31 Jan 10
Unfortunately, we've all run into people like this at one time or another. Such people, in my opinion, have feelings of inadequacy and must overcome these feelings by putting up a front of superiority. Even worse, they are totally insensitive to the feelings of those people whom they denigrate. An in many cases, such people are "windbags" who are factually unreliable and therefore undependable. My late brother-in-law was the worst I ever met and was truly a legend in his own mind. My policy when meeting such people is to drop them like hot potatoes and move on.
• Malaysia
4 Feb 10
yes dear ... they are really insensitive towards our feelings cheers
@krajibg (11940)
• Guwahati, India
31 Jan 10
Hi Sanjana, The world is like the one u have observed. Those ae the best without the best elements in them and you are the one to throw into a dustbin for you have not shown or tried to show your real talent. This is the time to show false impression. Just relax and apply your head on the right direction.
• Malaysia
1 Feb 10
i hv learned only to pretend dumb with this people ... no way i got no strength to argue with this people ~ worst of all is when they show their 'face' n tell others that we talk 'alot' or 'stubborn'
@1anurag1 (3580)
• India
31 Jan 10
i think it is really good to be the best. but in relaity there is nothing best. when ever you find in the world best a better thing than the best will be presented by the nature. and the thought of a person that he is only the best one and the right person only in every case tells that he is really far behind and even far from the reality. so it is better not to argue with people like that. no body can judge others. it may be true that a dance could be seen as best by some one but not by all. so it is only the matter of level of thinking.
• Malaysia
31 Jan 10
yes its good to be the best ,but not by puting someone down n stepping on them ..i dont argue with them, - a few of my friends who enjoy my cooking actually recommend me to start a restaurant .. my husband already putting aside some money so that we can start off next year .. n here is 'that' person, trying to pull a face n forceing the food into her mouth as though they are not edable..
• India
9 Feb 10
Hello my friend sanjana_aslam Ji, Our world is so typical around taht one if acted accordingly would find oneself in mental ward of any hospital. So the best way to deal with such charcters is to avoid and in case ubder unavoiable conditions, simply smile, so they get themselves teased anddo not approach one. Just skip them without giving any importance.May God bless You and have a great time.