I can not stand such kind of neighbor
By sasalove
@sasalove (1709)
China
February 1, 2010 8:40pm CST
I always think that I have a good temper that anger or negative attitude will not be accompanied with me, but now I am wrong. Lately when I was still in bed, I heard that the splitting voice is haunting outside the door. That is really disgusting. At the moment, I would like to jump out from the bed and knock the door of the neighbor to tell how evil of that behavior. “Calm down, calm down” I talk to myself, assumed that she does not feel very well for her throat and lungs, I should understand. I control myself. But the most annoying thing is I see the spittle speeding everywhere outside my door when I dressed up to work.
Now the flu is overwhelming and doctor always advised that we should focus on the hygiene problem, particularly for the self hygiene. As we have the work time difference, I never say hello to my neighbor until they moved into my building. If you were in my situation, would you release your anger in such circumstance? What is your best suggestion on this? I really can not stand such kind of neighbor with the impolite behavior.
2 responses
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
2 Feb 10
I think it's pretty gross. I suggest that you should try to ignore it. When they do it, listen to music or something to cover up that nastiness. If you decide to tell them, they might be offended so if you guys would meet each other, both of you might feel the tension. But if you don'T really mind and that you don't get to cross them often, you can try to tell them...in a nice way... When I get in the subway, I hear people doing it sometimes. It does disgust me for a few moment but i try to divert my mind to something else.
@sasalove (1709)
• China
2 Feb 10
Thanks for your suggesiton, but I could not ignore it as it just like the clock that wakes me up. I know that it will cause the relationship to be more tension, but I just hope that I could use the method to avoid her evil behavoir, while I could not talk to her. Every time while I relate her cough to the sputum on the floor, I do not have any patience to talk to her even.
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
2 Feb 10
hmm you can try to meet him and make a normal conversation. Then try to come to that subject. You can invent some fake experience you had where it disgusts and disturbs you. That's a way to tell those neighbor indirectly. If they still don't get it, there is no other choice but to confront it. I hope your problem will be fixed soon. goodluck
@sasalove (1709)
• China
2 Feb 10
Thanks, I seldom meet the neighbor, I only know “ her” from her voice. Definitely we do not have any conversation or communication. I came back home for lunch this afternoon and walked by her house, aware of a dirty tissue in front of her doorway. I am not sure if somebody saw it, and then use the tissue to cover it. It is so dirty that I am not willing to use my brain to think of it. If she still does it again by tomorrow morning, I think I will rush and knock her door. The corridor is not her own treasure.
@shikaymaru (700)
• Malaysia
2 Feb 10
Wow, such a dilemma...Maybe you should tell them that you don't like their behavior and how uncomfortable you feel. Since you have different work time, why don't you make a note or letter and put it stick it on their door or just slip it underneath their door.
Good Luck!
