Would you trust a friend who acts very sneaky with you?

@Mady2791 (547)
United States
February 3, 2010 10:56am CST
I mean like it seems he/she has a hidden agenda..acts suspicious and stuff like that like changing plans all of sudden and doesn't tell you why plans were changed and stuff?
3 responses
@donna22 (1120)
3 Feb 10
I think this behaviour would certainly make me suspicious/paranoid but it would also depend on certain factors. Some people, even close friends can simply be very inconsiderate at times and make plans to meet up and then change them at last minute. Its a pain obviously so if you are going through this and it is really egtting to you I would suggest confonting your friend or they will carry on doing it. Chances are they maybe do not even realise what they are doing is upsetting you.
@Mady2791 (547)
• United States
3 Feb 10
Well, I'm not really upset really...things happen. Is the all-of-a-sudden change of plans and not telling why. I would tell the reason why things have to modified. Also there are things that don't make sense at all....hehee. The funny thing is that this person arranged the plans(initiated) so I'm thinking/doubting if this person genuinely wanted to pursue the plan today and then decided not to. Sometimes I get the feeling this person has other plans going on and for some reason(who knows) feels forced to make plans with me. They force her to make plans and she really doesn't want to because she has her own life to deal with? I know weird reasoning of mine :( anyway thanks for listening.
@Mady2791 (547)
• United States
3 Feb 10
Maybe she is very sneaky and likes to play mind trick games with me to make think stuff..whatever she wants me to think :( Anyway I will overlook these games or whatever the hell it is and go with the flow. I'm very tolerant..sometimes too much :( As you can see I have a heck of an interesting friendship going on in my life right now. I'll keep you updated with any news.
@Mady2791 (547)
• United States
3 Feb 10
It's ok if you call me paranoid too. It's understandable if you are thinking that way. Hey with these weird reasoning of mind I would think the same thing to :(
@phoenix8606 (4978)
3 Feb 10
hi! of course I will not trust to any of my friends, who acts sneaky with me, but I think i don't have such friends, because i select my friends very carefully and don't trust just everybody
@Mady2791 (547)
• United States
3 Feb 10
Thank you! That's why I don't trust her and NEVER WILL until she tells what's going on! hahahahaha. I'm a lunatic I know :(
3 Feb 10
:) I haven't said something like that- you said it. Maybe i am a lunatic too or maybe we both are crazy :(
@KISARAGI (13)
• Italy
3 Feb 10
Mmmh...I don't know...depends on how and with whom...