Do you find older men attractive?

Philippines
February 3, 2010 6:23pm CST
Maybe because I'm growing up. But I noticed that my taste in men seems to be changing. Last night, my friends and I went out to eat dinner. There were a few times when some of us would notice some guys just our age. But most of the times we found older guys more attractive than the younger ones. We also felt like they were sexier and more good looking.
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• China
4 Feb 10
I like older man,I think they are mature,smart and considerate when they do everything and treat others.
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• Philippines
5 Feb 10
they SEEM mature and smart. But I know that some of them are not.
@kyel_11 (1069)
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
just like the saying goes, 'opposites attract' haha! sometimes I also have the tendency to appreciate older men than men same as my age. I am attracted to men that are not that too old but older than my age because maybe I think they are mature enough and for that they can handle themselves very well... :D
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• Philippines
5 Feb 10
Your probably right, because if I choose someone younger than me, he'd still be learning to read and write and that is just wrong ;)
• United States
4 Feb 10
I like older men, but not that much older. I'm 19 so when I say older I mean like maybe a couple years. My bf is 8 months older than me so I'm ok with that.
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• Philippines
4 Feb 10
My boyfriend is also 2 years older than me :) but there are day's I'm sure he's acting like a twelve-year old. lol
@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
4 Feb 10
I wonder if you will feel the same when you are 52. But it really isn't so much the age as the person. Within a certain age range, I don't care if a guy is older or younger...
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
That's just it, older women like younger gusy and vice versa. What is it with this age thing? ;) Maybe we'd like someone not so cynical when we're older. But right now cynical seems to rhyme with sexy. lol
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@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
4 Feb 10
it's close enough
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@atv818 (1988)
• United Arab Emirates
6 Feb 10
Sigh! Fell in love with someone 18 years older than me, but we have to stay platonic because we are both happily married.
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
well sometimes life is really unfair. or is it just the thought of falling in love (again?) that makes you regret losing that chance?
@towongfoo27 (2989)
• United States
5 Feb 10
When I was younger in my early twenties, I most definitely found older men more attractive. Older men are usually more mature than their younger counterparts, and exude more confidence. Older guys are usually more settled, too. Yet watch out for older men, too, because their experience can make you an easy target to their charms. So I guess it goes both ways. If an older man is looking for a piece of tail with a younger and sometimes more gullible and personable young woman, be careful. Sometimes the older man can be already married, and not tell you, too. Don't get me wrong, there are decent older men out there, just make sure you really get to know someone before you committ is all I am saying. I guess it just depends on what you want. On the other hand, it seems younger men care more about themselves, too, because they are still trying to develop their life. Whether an older guy is more sexy depends on your personal tastes, so if you are attracted to older men, go for it! I know women who say an older guy helps them to feel more safe and protected than a younger guy could.
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
Yeah I've seen too many movies about men experiencing a mid-life crisis and choosing to be with much younger women. That boosts their ego. That's something to be careful about. Specially if their quite evasive about being married or something. Thanks for the advice.