Are You Still Faithful to the One You Love?

@atv818 (1980)
United Arab Emirates
February 4, 2010 10:44pm CST
Work nights lately and to keep me awake, my colleagues and I send messages to one another like there's no tomorrow. Often times, they will send me confession stories from girlie or hunky magazines on how they sexually cheated their loved ones. At first, I laughed at these stories because I get them twice or thrice a night just to keep my eyes wide open. They intrigued me since I don't do those things. But now, I get them almost every 30 minutes from my eager-typing friends. I was shocked to know that cheating is very rampant. I'm a mom of 3 daughters (13, 9 and 7 yrs old) and I fear that their soon-to-be loved ones will eventually cheat on them. I still value my marriage and still a one-man woman. How about you? Do you care your relationship with full honesty or with cheating on the side?
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• Malaysia
5 Feb 10
Full honesty of course. But it's truth that there are not many honest people left. Sometimes men cheat because of various reasons e.g. that is his normal attitude or peer pressure If his friends are laughing at him for not having the guts to cheat on his wife, he might do it to prove that the has the guts.
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@atv818 (1980)
• United Arab Emirates
6 Feb 10
That is a scary thought. I pray that my husband will not be tempted, ever! Thanks for the insight.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
..Hi.. I'm very much loyal to my husband na matter what happens in our marriage.. of course we also have some fights and misunderstanding but I think that is already part of marriage.. And I want to stay faithful and loyal until I die.. Yeah, cheating is everywhere and happens to anybody.. I believe it depends on how we manage our emotions and feelings.. I hope that my child will have a faithful and responsible husband in the future.. I also hope that my husband will be as loyal to me as I am to him.. this is a great test for married couples.. it depends on how both partners will tackle and overcome the problem..
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@atv818 (1980)
• United Arab Emirates
6 Feb 10
Hats off to you, my Dear! Are we the only honest ones who are left? I hope not. Thanks for your comment!
@happymommy3 (2012)
• United States
26 Mar 10
I definitely believe in being faithful to the one you love. I married at a young age. Met my husband, my first love, at 17 and had my first baby by 18. We've been together ever since. Still going strong 13 years this coming up July. I'm so in love with him as the day I met him and I know he also feels the same way towards me. I've never once thought about cheating on him. He works nights now and I'm a full time stay at home mom. So during the day he's asleep most of the day, at night he's not here. But when we do have time together, little moments like in the morning when he gets home, we eat breakfast and talk a little bit before he goes to bed. Later he gets up again to eat early dinner and we spend some time together again for a couple hours with the kids. I might not get to spend as much time as I'd like with him but I cherish those moments because I know he's working hard for me and the kids and I always let him know I appreciate him. Whether it be talking with him about his day, snuggling with him before he goes to sleep, or whatever. We message each other as well on facebook when he's at work. He's my best friend, soulmate, the Lord blessed me with him I can't ever imagine cheating on him with someone else. We've always told each other if we feel it's gotten to the point where we're not happy with each other and feel the need to be with someone else we need to talk. It makes me sick how people these days now use the excuse that "it's good for the relationship" to be with other people, or that "oh well, it happens all the time." So my point being, lol. I do take my marriage serious and would never ever cheat on my husband, I love him too much and will be faithful to him until the day I'm gone.