Single or in relationships

@cintoy (1011)
Indonesia
February 5, 2010 9:10pm CST
I am 23 now. Still single. i enjoy free life. being in relation with someone makes me feel that i am not that free anymore. Even though it was fun to have a relationship but i will feel that the limits of my actions are automatically drawn. i think i should enjoy life more of being single. What do you think?
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@jb78000 (15139)
6 Feb 10
you are still pretty young and i think if you enjoy being single then make the most of it. i got into a serious relationship very young (started when i was 16 and he was 19) and it ended up after a few years not working. i think a good deal of this was to do with the fact that we were too young - even if we didn't think so. you are obviously older but still at an age when you can have a lot of fun being single
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@cintoy (1011)
• Indonesia
7 Feb 10
yeah.. maybe you are rite. I should not be in a relationships at the moment. Let life flows as it is.
@arumisan (45)
• Australia
6 Feb 10
I'm 18, and never been in a relationship, but at this point in my life I'm enjoying what I have. If a opportunities comes, let's see what happen :D, but as for now I honestly don't think I'm missing all that much yet.
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@cintoy (1011)
• Indonesia
6 Feb 10
Yeah.. you still have long way to go. Enjoy your life to the fullest. happy mylotting
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• Indonesia
6 Feb 10
i am 25, soon to be 26 and i'm going to be married next year (wish me luck, guys). i've been in relationship with my current partner for more than 2 years, and those time are great. yes, i have to admit that i hadn't get that much time for my friends as i used to be, but i am (at least until now) still free to do anything i want as long as it is a positive thing. and i also do the same for my partner. i guess, the key is understanding and communication. as long as you both understand each other and do enough communications, everything will be okay even if you are not single (married) anymore. but if you still like to be single, that's no problem too. everyone has their own choice
@cintoy (1011)
• Indonesia
7 Feb 10
Wow. congratulations. you are rite. as long as both of you can understand each other and communicate, why bother waiting. once again.. congratulations. WIsh both of you happily ever after.
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
technically yu're right...being single and unattached means freedom and when we're in a relationship we feel strap down. but there will come a time that you will get tired of being free and want to feel how to be strap down by the person you love. i am married, i do wish most of the time that i was free and unattached, where i can just enjoy life...but in the end i realize that life is living with the person you love.
@cintoy (1011)
• Indonesia
10 Feb 10
yeah.. sometimes being free is very nice but sometimes, we can feel the lonliness
• China
6 Feb 10
You are still very young,don't worry.Just enjoy your life~Let nature take its course
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@cintoy (1011)
• Indonesia
6 Feb 10
Enjoying my life now. Just broke up few days ago. bit sad. but now, i am as free as bird. =D
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• United States
6 Feb 10
I am 24 and married. I completely think that a person should wait longer than I did to get married or be in a very serious relationship. I'm not saying I'm not happy but I do wish I had a few more years just getting to know myself before being obligated to share everything about myself. I think when you mean the right person you will want to leave your free life to join a life with them. Never do anything that your heart isn't telling you to do because you will just end up unhappy wishing you could have a redo on life.
@cintoy (1011)
• Indonesia
6 Feb 10
That's a great advise and sharing. Thanks for your response. Happy mylotting
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@lizzyt2007 (1312)
• Craig, Alaska
6 Feb 10
Being single does make a person feel free that is speaking from my single life experience so far. but for me I miss being in a relationship. I've been married twice and divorced twice. I like being single and I hate being single. I guess it just depends if you like the way things are right now in your life and you want to keep it that way or would you like a little change? that's me I want change but I am waiting for mr. right I am not searching just hoping one day I'll meet him and he'll become my best friend and then let the rest fall into place.
@cintoy (1011)
• Indonesia
7 Feb 10
i'm sorry to hear about your life. You'll soon get to see your Mr right. I'm sure of it.
• India
6 Feb 10
I'm single only...............
@cintoy (1011)
• Indonesia
6 Feb 10
Do you like to be single? or you prefer to be in relationships but just haven't got the right one?
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