If you PITY someone, do you think this is LOVE?
February 6, 2010 8:04pm CST
I know pity is much very different from love. Would anyone care to explain further especially to those who are really experienced in terms of love? I would gladly appreciate it from the bottom of my heart.
7 Feb 10
hi bypbyp! Definitely no. For me, it is better not to love a person at all, than to love him because I pity him. It's unfair to that fella. On the other hand, if you say, I pity you...does it mean I love you? Nope, that is not love. You pity that person because of the situation that happened to him/her. You can hate him and at the same time be sad on what's happening in his life. Uhmmm, am I making any sense? hahaha! Okay, one thing is for sure....love and pity are two different things like what you have said. But on the other hand, you can love or hate someone and at the same time pity that person due to other reason. But it can't be the reason of loving him or her because love is LOVE.ughhh..hihi!