If your friend hurt your heart,what will you do?

Indonesia
February 8, 2010 8:29am CST
Hi,friends..if your friend hurt you,what will you do?will you forgive him/her?or wil you hate him/her?
6 responses
@pipayst (140)
• Philippines
8 Feb 10
I don't think my friends would intentionally hurt me. If they did then they weren't friends in the first place. I'd probably let it stew for a little while and then one or the other has to apologize then we'd do stupid stuff then laugh about it. Rinse and repeat.
• Indonesia
8 Feb 10
Yes,i see...Thank for your answer
@pipayst (140)
• Philippines
8 Feb 10
The truth is that I'd immediately apologize or do something to that effect when I realize I've screwed up. I really do care about my friends even if I sound condescending at times.
• Canada
9 Feb 10
This exact issue happened to my girlfriend Kerry. She had a friend that she knew for about a year. They had so much in common and hung out a lot together. Kerry considered her a really close friend because they told each other personal things and felt comfortable expressing themselves to each other as well. Then one day Kerry's friend had to go away to Jamaica, but before she left Kerry asked her if she could bring some food and a couple other items from Jamaica for her. She agreed then Kerry gave her money to buy the things. To our surprise, when she came back from Jamaica she had only brought back half of the items we asked her to get. We later on found out that back in Jamaica she had used our money we gave her and bought our items, but she actually ate half of it before she brought it back to Canada for us. This is just an example of a few other things she did to my girlfriend, so Kerry eventually stop speaking to her because she always kept lying about something. Everyone has a conscience so all you can do is be the best person you can be in life. We really can't control other friend's actions.
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
Wow..the interesting story...
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
8 Feb 10
Hate is a very strong emotion and such an emotion will eventually destroy you. Rather forgive that friend, it will make you feel better and make a better person out of oyu.
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
Yes,you're right..i like your answer...Thank for your answer.
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
I will forgive him/her whatever he/she has done to me. I know that it must be so hurt to be hurt by our own friends, but I think that forgiveness is the best thing that we can give for someone who hurt us. By giving forgiveness, people who hurt us will regret for everything they've done to us. For me, the more pain we got, we will get the more happy things in the future. So i won't revenge to hurt my friend back, because thats useless, just make us becoming a bad person.
• United States
9 Feb 10
most likely i will show him that i did not like the actions he showed and will wait for him/her to show that she/he is sorry and will forgive them depending on if i should or not
@ANIME123 (2473)
• United States
9 Feb 10
I would forgive them, but it would take some time especially if they hurt me. I may act towards them the same, but on the inside I may be hurt and mad at them.