good provider daughter

Philippines
February 8, 2010 7:11pm CST
Are you a good provider daughter? Our parents had spent most of their money on us while we are still young. Provided us with almost everything that we need. Now that you earn your own money, do u give back to them?
6 responses
@raynejasper (2326)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
..hi.. my father has been very good and very responsible.. and I do want to repay him even through the smallest things I know that I can do to repay him.. As of now, it is my greatest wish to have my own house where I could let my father stay because we are staying in different place.. I wanted him to spend his remaining days with us, his children.. but we can't do that unless we buy a house and lot and we don't have the money to afford it.. I'm just hoping that someday, God will provide and grant my wish so that I can be with my family again.. parents deserve to be taken cared of until they die becuase they took good care of us until we grew up.. they all deserve to be loved and cherished no matter what type of parents they were..
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@babyEj (1525)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Yes I agree with you! Parents are worthy to repay for.... Same with you I wish to have a house where I could let there live with me.
@rameshchow (5284)
• India
28 Jul 10
EVERY father loves their daughters mostly than son. welcome to the my lot community.......
@vikkitita (195)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Want a parent point of view? I am a parent and I already have 4 grown up kids gainfully employed. All of them are still living with me. No one is married yet. My point of view is that, if they are still staying with me, I want them to share too in the household expenses. That way they also learn about responsibilities. They would be spending the same anyway if they go and live on their own. I don't expect them to pay me back the money I spent for their education. It was my responsibility as a parent. Now that they are earning, I want them to share with the responsibilities at home. And I want them also to set aside funds for their future while they are still young. It would be a different thing when they're married. I wouldn't want them to give me money if I still am able to support myself. I'd rather that they focus spending their money to provide for their own family
@will_win (222)
• India
27 Jul 10
Yes i am a good provider daughter,since my parents were divorced my brothers and sisters were staying with mother and she hardly gets money from her job and it became so difficult to survive, now i am earning and sending money for her and she is very happy and she says half of her burden was gone........so i am happy to hear that
@qamarep (4451)
• Pakistan
19 Feb 10
no but i am a good provider son if that counts too.
@tluanga (768)
• India
17 Feb 10
of course if they needed, i used buy or pay for my father when he needed. They have work that much hard to send us to those school and college to learn and when we get a job it is our duty to support them when they needed