If your in my shoes what wud you do?

If she still goes the boy's house on weekends, they're not yet through. She's lying to you when she said that. She might have the same intense feeling you have for her but to another boy. Forget her. There are other girls around deserving of your love. I know you can't do it right now, but let time heal you. Go to a place where you can not see her, busy you mind with other things, who knows? You might find another love...Good luck!

You can't help your feelings so I would not try to stop thinking about her. Trying to stop thinking about someone or something never works. You have to think of something else, there is a difference. You should really just get busy with something that has nothing to do with her. Don't put your life on hold for a girl who still spends weekends with her ex. It's clearly not over.

it's obviously not over between them,i think she's playing you,leave her well alone and get on with your life

i think its obvious she is not really through with her ex so better make a space between the two of you. it aint easy especially when you are deeply inlove with her but just a little respect for your self just leave her alone. there are other women out there who will not play with your feelings so make up your mind my dear.

Did they broke up? How did you know? Has the girl knew about how you feel? I don't understand why she spends the weekend with him if she was through with him. I'd rethink for a moment and maybe I'd stay away from her for a while. This discussion lack a little more details. But if you knew the girl so much then probably you can just talk to her and you may engage in the topic about her relationship status. Get a little more information about them and try not to jump unto conclusions yet.

I experienced that but in a different way. There was this girl who I've fallen for. t We always text each other and sometimes call. She said she was over his ex boyfriend. After months I started to court her then after 1 month I just found out that they were together again with her ex boyfriend. After that I just leave them be and get on with my life. I would say that what she is doing is clearly the opposite of what she is saying. You should move on and fine another one. There's plenty of girls out there.