How often does you and your Partner argue???

United States
February 10, 2010 1:28am CST
Hey mylot just wondering how often does you and your partner argue and what it usually about?
5 responses
• United States
10 Feb 10
My boyfriend and I had only two real arguments in our 7 months old relationship. Once was about a player guy and his girlfriend. They were his friends, but the problem was that that guy's girlfriend always insulted my boyfriend and I really did not like it. of course, my objection angered him. So that night basically we fought 2 hours and then we both bursted into tears! The second one was totally my fault. He was telling me about how his days will be once he starts working. I ended up saying, "do you think you will cheat on me with your female coworkers". This just made him yell at me badly. He believed I was pointing finger at his character. So that were the only two real arguments happened.
• United States
10 Feb 10
Hello divineathena and welcome to mylot.com! By your current ratings I can see that you are fairly new to this site, so welcome to mylot.com! Hopefully eveything is going well in your life, things are starting to finally look up for me. I have been with my boyfriend for almost three months but have known him for six years. We dated in the past and he cheated on me when we were a lot younger but I have tooken him back. We argue a lot, I mean I lost my five month old daughter to a virus and there are times when i just don't want to be bothered but he is here, I know that I really do love him for being here but am starting to feel bad because I have been pushing everybody away. I can honestly admit that when we do argue nine times out of ten is because it is a time where I want and need him around but he can't be there because he is at work. My baby really does take care of home, i can honestly admit that. I know that he deserves to come home and get a rub down, massage, and to feel like he is wanted. I feel so bad about how I have been dealing with my emotions. Well although I know he probably never will get on mylot and see this but I would like to let him know that i do care and I am going to be fighting for you just like you are fighting for me! I love you Jemarr Louis Smith whether you believe me or not!
• United States
11 Feb 10
Hi Nakitalikely, Thank you for welcoming me here. I feel you have been quite depressed and somehow it is affecting your relationship. So did you try talking to him about your emotional condition? I feel your boyfriend is very loving and he will stand by you no matter what you are going through.
@mezulu (166)
• United States
16 Apr 10
I can honestly say that in my current relationship of nine months, my girlfriend and I have yet to have a blowout fight. We have argued about a great many things, but because of our love and respect for each other, these rarely go farther than a few words. However, I know that arguing can actually be healthy for a relationship. Getting your feelings about something into plain sight will always be better than keeping them inside, where they eat at you and corrode the relationship. I do expect to have a serious fight with my girlfriend at some point, but I am very confident that they bond we have with one another is strong enough to outlast any argument we could think up.
@rumshie (186)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
i've been in a 2-year long relationship before (1st and currently last boyfriend). we rarely argue and sometimes it's because of DIFFERENT POINT OF VIEWS (schools and friends matter mostly). WE ALSO HAVE OUR KIDDY ARGUE (which means just a joke arguments). we exercise healthy freedom though (that's why we rarely argue because it's not important to us to have the same point of view)
@kitaboo1 (34)
• United States
10 Feb 10
Hey nakitalikely3617! How are you doing? Hopefully you are doing well! I know things are really looking good for me, I have a Valentine for the first time just like you so hooray for us girl. Well anyways saw this discussion and had to put some input on it, well I have been talking to my new boyfriend for about 5 months and we have never argued. He is always at work and me i try to stay busy until he is off. Once he is off we spend time together, cuddle and talk about his day and my day and then dift off to sleep. I mean now no relationship is perfect but the isn't a lot of drama like other relationships I have been in in the past. Well thanks for this discussion topic and until next time nakitalikely3617 the power of the pen is in my hands and it is not going anywhere. Good night!
@saanjh (784)
• India
10 Feb 10
if you want to know about me, I always argue with my boyfriend in any matter it's start with a argue and converted to fight yesterday I fight with him because my favorite actor is Salman and His is Sharukh and the topic is who is the best actor Salman and Sharukh.