What is the best way to express love?
February 13, 2010 6:10am CST
For you what is the best way to express your true love? How you express your sincere and true love to your partner? For women how would you like your partner express their love to you? What would you like them to do in order to make you feel secure with their love?
14 Feb 10
I dont express my love through material things. I show them my patience, understanding and show of support - that is through action. Sometimes, expression through words are great but action speaks louder than words and i think it works.
14 Feb 10
I agree with what you said, true love should be express in words and actions, more appreciated if it's on deeds. And I would love that, if all people know how to express love unconditionally through actions then it will always be wonderful place, it's a heaven on earth. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy the rest of the weekends!
• United States
14 Feb 10
Hey careguarden! I think that the best way my boyfriend could express his love to me would be to be completely honest with me! Sometimes he keeps things inside and won't tell me his true feelings and that drives me crazy and causes problems in our relationship! We live togethere and are supposed to have a "partnership" which means we need to talk about things and when he is upset he closes up himself to me and gets angry and just won't talk to me which makes the problems get worse! We were on the verge of splitting up and him moving out and I was very upset because I really love him! We are trying to work things out, at least I think so. But, I'm not sure I believe him anymore because sometimes he lies just to keep the peace and I'm afraid he might be doing this until he is ready to walk out the door so I have to be on my guard and that is a sad thing!
14 Feb 10
Oh, that's too bad for you. It's really hard to live with someone whom won't talk and express his feelings, emotions and problems with you, when you supposed to share it with each other. There are some things I know in that kind of situations, when a person are not expressive, you need to do something that will makes the person express his self, and that is making the person assure that you listen and understand his feelings and you love him so much, letting the person be himself by being yourself as well. It's like in the golden rule. Doing to others what you want others do to you. Although it takes a lot of effort and love, the main thing is if you love the person and he loves you as well, you should never give up on working it out. Just a simple thoughts my friend. I'm sure you know it already.
• Boston, Massachusetts
13 Feb 10
Hi Care, First you have to be yourself. let your love one see your trueself...no pretentions and fake personalities. always let your loved one feel they are important for doing little things like a goodnight and good morning kiss. hold hands while sleeping, prepare towel and other toiletries for him, pampered him with a loving massage after a long day of work, prepare him his favorite food, give him a call or text him how he is and if he eat already. while having dinner look at him and give him a wink or a naughty look...make a note and post it on the ref telling him that you have something for him inside his bag for snacks...simple but will surely tickles ones heart!
13 Feb 10
hi there careguarden . Hmmm I am not an expensive partner I dont like jewelries, shoes , clothes etc. For a way to express love is spending quality time with your love one, your husband or your boyfriend. When you say quality time that is alredy inclusive of Love Care and Attention. I can spend quality time and express my love thru going together on travel. or vacation. I also want to spend my true love with personalize gifts that I made. I love to collate, make stuff and compile pictures. and one thing best way to express you love is by being faithful and loyal to your partner. Cheers :) =d09:)