I think for girls it is hard to keep a secret a secret :)

@1anurag1 (3581)
India
February 14, 2010 2:06pm CST
I feel that many girls share secrets by saying please do not tell to anyone this is a secret. it is very hard for a female to have a secret as a secret. even they share with every one but at the end ask her or him not to share with some one. what your views are.
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• Philippines
15 Feb 10
I guess it's feminine nature. Please don't tell anyone about this. Deep inside, she'd consciously or unconsiciously say, "Let me be the one to tell everyone about it." Bwahahahaha, but this is a fact that I've learned through personal experience. I can't keep a secret all the time. It's very tempting to tell the world what you know. There are times, though, that I'd keep my mouth shut, that's when I know that the secret could be damaging to a friend or loved one. I used to have a friend who who worked as a federal agent. When he caught his wife in bed with another man, he did the other man in. As to his wife, he sent her away. A few month's later, his wife left the country with another man. To this very day, I haven't told anyone about it. Oh yes, I'm telling you now, but I'm not mentioning names. What else can I say, that's the way we are. Unless we are saints or unable to talk (dumb), we will always love to talk. Have a nice day lanurag!
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@1anurag1 (3581)
• India
15 Feb 10
THanks for response. i know the level of peace while sharing those things which cant be shared with any. but whatever this is my analysis that girls have the nature to reveal the secret of others. and after all you have told the story. whatever i think i am not blaming any body. in this way there is no difference in females all over the world, they are all same :)
• Philippines
16 Feb 10
Good AM, lanurag. From wherever we are, we belong to the same species. And you know what else, it's also hard for men to keep secrets. After a date, most of them would brag about it to their friends. They aren't any different from us, either, hehehe. They're human, too.
@Outcast (633)
• United States
14 Feb 10
I do not think just because your female it is hard to keep a secret. I have many secrets I have kept over the years. Some secrets I still keep after are friends are no longer friends. I think it is one sided to think that.
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@vandana7 (57187)
• India
15 Feb 10
Hi anurag, I know of some guys as well! There have been many secrets that were shared with me in past, and some of them came out because had I not told them, a few others would keep on suffering for the rest of their lives as they would not have succeeded in proving some things. As things stand, accusations were pretty big, and I had to open my mouth and defend the innocent. I think it matters if everybody is up with arms against an innocent. So if I know a secret, and an innocent is likely to suffer because I dont open my mouth, then I would open my mouth. As simple as that! I would not support wrong for a friend. Guys would!
• India
15 Feb 10
Yes, This is my pesonal experience in this issue, It is very difficult to rely on you girls to tell them a secret , they revealed very easily and else accepting they won't tell to any one. Its very difficult to share a secret to them.There was a friend of named ***** I told her every past happening of life, She also shared her secret and we promised with each other., WE never revealed our secrets to anybody but within a week she told each and evrything to my elder sister. From that day I never relvealed my secret to anybody.
@anurag3786 (6275)
• India
15 Feb 10
Yaa. it's definitely true.. because a girl can't hide a secret as a secret in her mind. and i think it's a females natures..so be careful.. if you share your secret to a girls.. because one day you can in trouble.. if you share your secrets to a girls.. thanking you and keep mylotting always..