Patience...is there a right way of doing it?

@p3ks626 (6550)
Philippines
February 16, 2010 4:10am CST
One of the things that I have learned when it comes to dealing with people is being patient with them. I have dealt with so many kinds of people in everyday of my life and I thought I was being patient with them because even they do things to me even though its hurting me already, or something that they do is making me angry and I always tell myself to be patient with them. But today, I found out that it was a wrong way of being patient. To be patient is not to hold back the feelings that you have even though its hurting you already. To be patient is to let out your feelings to the person who hurt you and tell him/her about it. To not focus on the things that they do that's making you impatient but telling them on how you would feel if they do that thing. This way you would have a harmonious relationship with people because they already know what to avoid so you would be patient with them, but in the right way and you can also do the same thing for them too. Do you think this is right? Do you agree with it?
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