the husband should bring more money in the family ?

India
February 20, 2010 8:49pm CST
i think its the duty of the men to earn the living and to gaurd their family . i strongly believe that husband should bring more money in the family . of course women can also go to jobs and earn but it is a choice . but men should do it compulsorily . it is their duty to earn and feed their family . whats your opinion on this ?
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@prasunsam (359)
• India
21 Feb 10
Well its nice that you think that men should bring more money to the family.But i think that even if woman is earning more money than man ,then it should not be a ego problem for man.In today's time i feel men and women hold equal responsibilities for the family,then why earning equally should be a problem.Isn't it?
• India
21 Feb 10
ya i agree with you there should not be ego between husband and wife . but the men should go to job compulsorily but its not the case in women
• India
21 Feb 10
Well we have moved ahead of the ancient times,now men and women are carrier oriented.Now woman are equally capable of men.Now their work is not limited to only taking care of babies and household. I feel nowdays woman also take work as a compulsion and are very much carrier oriented.
• India
21 Feb 10
Well its not that only the men should earn money more than the women.. since we have crossed the ancient days where all these happened.. we have thus had a tremendous growth in everything so we don ve to restrict for these kind of things.. just need to think ahead..
• India
21 Feb 10
i dont think only men should go nd get more money 4 d family to run, both shoulg play equal role specially today,women r no less thn capabl of men ,,things has to be change .nowdey no women appreciate mysognist view at all so ,peopl should undestand that women r not put on this earth just to please men ,both hv eqal responsibily to run a family nd nd should b respect 4 this,
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
I don't agree that it's the man who will always have to work so hard to be a provider. Nowadays, life is so hard and we cannot afford lose a job so bills can be settled. I believe that it should be both that should earn especially when there are kids so that the finances can be manged well and putting the burden less on the husband.
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
yes me too. since his the head of the family of course its expected for him to be the one who will earned big than the wife though the wife can just add income by going to work too. though thee comes a times that the wife earned big than the husband and so the husband will feel bad about it thinking his useless. but what matter is, they both understand that money must not be the center of their life but their love and care as a family.
21 Feb 10
Good day friend! As men are considered a stronger gender, they are considered as the base of the family.They are the head, leader,protector,provider for the whole family tree.And since money is an important factor in making the family run, then it would be very good if the husband could bring in enough or better yet more than enough to meet the needs of the family.That shoould have been an ideal. Though since we have equal rights nowadays , it won't be bad of course if the wife could have that leading role of being the provider. If she can best do it rather than the husband then why not? After all , it's for the good of the family.
• India
21 Feb 10
Nothing wrong if the women does earn more money to the family.. we have crossed the ancient times and developed so much so we need to also think a little higher and not be restricted in a small circle..
@SomeCowgirl (32270)
• United States
21 Feb 10
I think that it is a nice and romantic thought that the man bring in more money but some careers that more women do then men bring in more money. That is to say that a career we find more women in, can sometimes bring in more money then a career that a man is in. For example, Nurses, there are some male nurses but most of them are men, and it's a good paying job... I would like to be able to kind of relax and not work as much once my husband and I have children but that would all depend on our financial situation. I would not want my husband to feel pressured to bring home the bacon, and I wouldn't want him to work any more hours then absolutely necessary.
• United States
21 Feb 10
I am so glad you feel woman scan have a job. I thought this was going a different way. Call me anything you want. But I am agreeing with you. I don't see the man as head of the house hold any other way. Many people will disagree with us but we hav eto be strong.