Mom/Family V/S Gf/Wife

February 21, 2010 8:23pm CST
After marriage life if TOUCH ... only a married man can answer this- and once you let married you get comments from everyone like: MOM- Now you only listen to your life FRIENDS- Yeah now you are married why would you have time for US WIFE- you used to give me a lot of time before marriage but now you are too busy working, and with friends. BOSS AT WORK- You are not concentrating on your work, are you thinking about your wife even at work I dont understand after marriage where does the time goooooo????????
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@keisey (181)
• Philippines
22 Feb 10
oh my, actually even married women can answer your question because they will give you perspective as to why these questions are asked. In my experience, the anwsers go like this: MOM's: she used to have you for herself, she now has competition for your attention and she doesn't like it. Wife: she feels like since you already "have" her "tied" she is being neglected. She becomes more sensitive that even if you still hang out as much with your friends before and after marriage, she feels like you are doing it MORE. And if you have kids, she'll feel like you are having all the time in the world while she is left with them. Friends: probably they are right, because of your wife's demands you chose to bail out on the usual hang outs. Boss: if he says that just after the wedding, it is understandable.:D just my to cents. ;)