The best way to love your children...

Philippines
February 23, 2010 6:28am CST
They said that the best way to show love to your kids is to love your partner and show affection to each other. Do you believe with it? What do you think?
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@julia28 (140)
• India
26 Feb 10
Very nice discussion topic ! I agree with you ,you are absolutely right.Fighting parents leave a very disturbing impression in childs under developed brain.When a child sees his parents respecting each other his temper naturaly becomes lovable and cool.This is a very big point of concern that all parents should think. Other ways of showing love to them is make them good food ,take them for a dinner out ,take them to amusement parks ,buy them some toys and story books . I think parents express or engage in physical affection ,compromise or positive feelings can increase childs security.This is surely the best way to show you love your children.
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
Yeah, this what mostly parents fail to give importance as it will greatly affect to their children. A child who live in a loving and caring environment will grown up to be caring,responsible and respectful individual. As what they see with their parents will instill in their heart and mind. Like a son who always see his father cared and love his mother, when he grown up and have family of his own, he will do the same thing like what his father did to him mom, or a daughter see how much her mom care and love her dad, later when she grown up she will more likely do the same thing as her mom did. A strong and loving relationship with parents will make their children feel secured. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your weekends!
@julia28 (140)
• India
27 Feb 10
Thank you very much friend !!Best wishes from my side !!
@laglen (19782)
• United States
24 Feb 10
I think that is a very big part. Kids sense upheaval and peace. When the parents are in love and show their affection, I believe that kids feel this and will respond to it accordingly. But I also think that showering the kids with affection is VERY important!
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
Yeah, it's important of course to shower kids with love, however if could be much better if they see and know how much their parents love each other. A loving and caring atmosphere at home plays major role in developing their emotional and intellectual aspects of their personality. We can always differentiate a child that's grown up from a loving and dysfunctional family. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your weekends!
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
2 Apr 10
Well thats true, loving the partner so truly and really can help in showing the real and love and care towards the kids too. I strongly believe in that and thats how we live!
• Canada
24 Feb 10
ummm loving your kids is "to love your partner and show affection to each other"??? umm no that shows your kids that they dont get any attention. I think you need to show your children you love them just by sitting and spending time with them either playing or reading or even watching a movie and cuddling with them. If they feel ignored because all you do is spend time with your partner it will be worse in the long run. They will end up resenting you and will have troubles with relationships of thier own. That is not fair to a child. NEVER stop showing your children that you love them.
• India
23 Feb 10
now days as parents are to busy with their jobs so they are not able to give enough love to their children and are left with other person so the best way in this busy life is to give small time to their children but during that time they should talk to them with love and affectionate leaving your tension and asking about their daily life and their problems and listen to them with great care and sincerely so in my accordance if you love your partner too much and always live happily without any fight than that also provide a great love to you r child so try to provide them more and more time and understand their feelings properly than only your child can live happily and will be satisfied by you even if you are not able to give them great time.
@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
23 Feb 10
I think the best way to show love to your kids both in the sense of letting them know you love them AND showing them how to love others, is to love them UNCONDITIONALLY and COMPLETELY....Accept them for WHO they are, be openminded with them, realize they are individuals and NOT carbon copies of us, their parents.... As for showign them how to love by way of how we love our partners...well IMO we should love our partners the same way I described above actually..
@towongfoo27 (2989)
• United States
23 Feb 10
I feel to show love in any form is a good way to be there for our children. Whether that love is from relationships, enjoyment of life, or the everyday, it is also important to be real with our children, too. We don't want them to get confused by the differences between thier parent's loving relationship and household in comparison to the too-realistic world, right? I sometimes think that showing to much affection can backfire, for kids often do imitates their parents in thier behaviors. They may not know yet what love is, nor what they are doing when they kiss a friend at that age, but love is also setting limits, too.
• India
23 Feb 10
I think the best way to give love to kid is understand them and love them.