what is the difference between friend and love......?
February 24, 2010 5:08am CST
I have heard lot of people started relationship as a friend ends up with love.So i would like to know the difference between these two. Is it acceptable being a friend for certain period and then become a lover afterwords? Does it not amount to injuring friendship?At the same time, one cannot love a person with out having friendship.Then,what would be the intention of the person who becomes a lover when she started her relationship as a good friend? Can i say that the person is cunning or wolf in sheep skin? Because she hide her true motive.whatever she did was to cheat the other person? Explain please.
24 Feb 10
Hello! There are people who are happily married to their best friend. Some people are destined to be friends only (I experienced that). There is nothing wrong that during of friendship they will discover love. It's part of life, it's reality. I believe that one of the foundation of love is friendship. You asked, what would be the intention of the person who become a lover.... Umn, the intention I think is for good. "WE CAN'T CHOOSE HOW WE FEEL, BUT WE CAN CHOOSE WHAT WE DO ABOUT IT." If the lover is a guy, he will began to court his friend... hope the girl will understand it and have the same feelings..haha. But if the lover is a girl... umn, I'm a girl, I don't have the guts to say it to my friend..haha, I'd rather pray for it and wait for the answer. ^_^ Quote: "Wolf in sheep skin"...Umn, let's use it if that person had a motive of killing his/her friend...haha, just kidding! Seriously, better to understand the person who become a lover, maybe he/she didn't know what to do about it. It's not wrong to fall in love with your friend and hide it from a meantime. Maybe he/she wait for the right time to say it. Hope you get my point. Good day!