Should You Wreck Your Life to Cope with a Break-up?

Philippines
February 24, 2010 9:25am CST
Break-ups are a natural part of relationships. When two people find themselves incompatible after sharing a commitment with each other, they decide to drop the relationship and live separate lives. There is always one person who initiates the break-up; the other is often left off-guard. Everyone has a few stories to tell because break-ups are almost always devastating. Every person has his/her way of coping, but should destroying your life be a way to cope with a break-up? What are the other safe ways to forget a heartbreaking event? How do you finally let go and move on?
4 responses
@bluegsm (15)
• Philippines
25 Feb 10
I don't think destroying your life would be the best way to handle a break up. I think when two people that once loved each other so much separates its not because they fell out of love with each other instead they needed to separate because by separating you are able to discover what is you actually want to have in a relationship. You can let go by occupying your day by doing something productive or having friends around and being with positive people will lighten up that load off your shoulder.
• Philippines
25 Feb 10
It is a given fact that break-ups usually result from misunderstanding. However and oftentimes, there is a third party involved. Whatever the reason may be, I think the secret to making a relationship work harmoniously is to always keep the communications line open. With this open line of communication, I don't think there is no way of finding out how your partner feels about the relationship from time to time, or if a partner is cheating on the other based on his/her gestures and actuations. http://www.mylot.com/?ref=bananarepublica
@yresh12 (3222)
• Philippines
25 Feb 10
I think that some of us feel that it's better wrecking our live because the our purpose of living has left us. I had undergone such depression and I ruined some things. Good thing I realize that theres a rainbow after the rain and everything's going to be fine. Right now am living for a purpose and won't ever let some guy ruin it, even if he means a lot to me.
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
24 Feb 10
Breaking up is the hardest part in a relationship. But,to destroy one's life(our life)just to cope up from beak up is madness. How can we cope up when we are destroying ourselves? It's not easy to cope up from heartache,sadness and pain. yet,it's not the end of everything,but the start of a new life to live ahead. Just cry your heart our loud..scream and shout until you feel you had let go of all the pains. Then...smile at yourself and say "he's not my lose...but he lost me "