Friend issue

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Now I have a few times written blogs about friends of mine and the problems I have had with them. Now the few times I have had issues with friends I didn't really think to much of it. Yes, I was ticked off and angry at the time, but this time has really reached a point of no return. The story goes is I was having a regular conversation with a friend of mine and all of a sudden the kid goes off on me. He had asked me school wise where I was planning to apply for college because its my community college time is up basically. So, I tell him how I am applying to a few different schools and this school I had applied to about 4 months ago that I got accepted to. Long story short about the school I am reapplying to see if I can get a higher scholarship amount than the 10,000 dollars they had originally offered. For some odd reason, my friend goes off on me about it. He says I am wasting my time and there is no point in retrying cause in the end I'm not going to get it. Now I was willing to let that go and just not think much about it, but then my friend starts hammering away about all the mistakes I've made in my life and throughout the time that he has known me. So, naturally every person reaches there breaking and I was going to sit there and continue to hear it. Without insulting him and taking shots at him, I just basically said well we can't all be perfect like you can since apparently you never make mistakes. Now, I don't know how most of you feel, but I take medical sicknesses with a heavy heart because I have a brother who has a medical condition and I have developed a medical sicknesses over the last two years dealing with anxiety and stuff. Now I don't have a problem taking a shot at myself if that made him feel any better, but to come around and then take a shot at a sickness I have that I can't really control right now and have problems controlling at times is just a shot thats so low that really puts my friend in my eyes lower than a cockroach. Now since then I really haven't talked to the kid because I figured hey maybe he would come to his senses and be like hey, I took things to far, I should have showed you some respect, and not said what I did. Now basically I am just looking for some reassurance. Should I continue to distance myself from being his friend or should I actually try reaching out and be like hey lets just forget about it. However, some things said is something I can't really just say hey I can forget it. So any advice, opinions, or anything will be appreciated.