"THE 3rd PERSON"

Lovers - love. love. love.
By dee
@yresh12 (3212)
Philippines
February 26, 2010 2:55am CST
Cheating partners. We always concentrate on them. Haven't you thought about how the 3rd person really feels.Are they happy with what they are doing? Is this just for fun? They say when you love, it just comes and you can't help but never let go of the thing that you have been wanting the most. The problem is that person came into your life when they are already attached or married. ""Love is blind," being blind that the one your having an affair with has a family and not thinking that you're ruining them. I just thought maybe If we get to know there feelings. We wouldn't be judgmental and try to understand there side of the story *Maybe they can't just help it. As what they say the more you wanted to stop it, the more you can't help yourself. *The feeling of not being able to get the ideal relationship that they have. I can't think of anything anymore. I think they are also having a hard time stopping themselves(not all of them are, I'm just talking about the 3rd person who took this seriously)
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3 responses
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
let us say you are the wife of the man with the third party involved,how does it feel for you?do you give her that understanding that is so easy to say and feels just that.... maybe that is the side of that girl who falls on the wrong man and let it happen... i dont think i am agree with that,,,,
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• Philippines
10 Mar 10
ok,thats real... everyone is free to say something and comment on something...
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@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
9 Mar 10
We are all humans and we are tempted to. I was just trying to point out that we all make mistakes and I was just trying to make some people see that the third party suffers to...
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@mjcookie (2271)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
I know it's hard for them to be looked upon as the dirty person for having entered a relationship that isn't supposed to be. But still I think the best way is to keep yourself from falling if you already know that the guy/girl already is committed to one. Some people are just too foolish to still try it even when they shouldn't. It hurts of course, but it is SOOOOO unfair for the one being cheated upon. What if the same thing happens to them? Surely they wouldn't be happy about it.
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@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
9 Mar 10
Yeah your right. It can't be help were overpowered by our emotions or they are. We are all a victim of all unfortunately for them, the one they had fallen for is already married or committed.
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@jimeny (640)
• Israel
26 Feb 10
I pity them. Some of them even start having a relationship with someone without even knowing he or she is actually married.
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@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
9 Mar 10
Yeah it is really unfair... That's what I started this.We were all focusing on the couple and not the 3rd party
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