What is the common arguement among couples

Philippines
March 2, 2010 9:56am CST
ex, third party,jealousy, money etch..? what do you think guys? Ithink im not matured enough to deal with this im just confused that's why i posted this topic to know and learn more..
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8 responses
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
it depends to the situation. like for example a guy will stay at work at night and take over time to have more income for his family and yet the girl didnt appreciate it or over jealous thinking he might have an affair with another girl and so the guy knowing that he already tried his best and his too tired he will become of course get angry to the point of hitting his wife and so the wife become so sensitive thinking her husband doesnt love her anymore coz he hit her. and if the girl keep on nagging on him and so its the start of arguments and the guy will be forced to find another girl that can give him peace of mind.
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• Philippines
5 Mar 10
hmm i think it happen to me.thnx homeshoppers for response god bless
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@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
I think most couples argue because of financial problems because we do have a lot of expenses and there are times when we can't afford to buy something and those were the stuffs that are considered a necessity.
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• Philippines
5 Mar 10
yes you are right. thnax for response god bless
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
2 Mar 10
I think that the most common argument between couples is money. The wife might spend in a budget minded way and the husband might spend too much money. They would therefore argue about saving money. I know that when a couple have children there can be arguments about the children. The wife might have one parenting style and the husband might have a totally different parenting style. If the wife is soft and kind the children will like that. When the husband is bossy and angry the children won't like that. The dad might take the son out late on a school night and the mom will not like that. She will argue that their son will be tired for school. If one is tidy and the other is messy there might be arguments. If the man thinks his girlfriend might be having an affair and she isn't it might well cause an argument.
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• Philippines
3 Mar 10
Thanx for response. Me and my husband always argue with money...
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@Flight84 (3048)
• United States
2 Mar 10
My husband and I don't argue often, but when we do it's usually about money. He's not as good with budgeting money as I am and we usually get into arguements about how to get stuff paid and how much money we need to set aside for the week.
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
really? thats nice.. mabe theere is a problem about my husband spending much money is not good to him. anyway thanx for response god bless
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@anc457 (186)
• Thailand
3 Mar 10
me and my partner never had an arguement yet until recently where there's this one "adendum" - (third party) and i think our relationship's going to fall out. :-(
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• Philippines
5 Mar 10
you are right third party is also one reason why couple argue.But as a wife i do all my best to make my partner happy so he will focus for his family as well,
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@frissph (130)
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
Out msin arguments are also about money. i'm usually very tight with money while the wife doesn't know how to budget, obviously this isn't a good thing. we're still working on compromises regarding this but it's fair to say that even if we magically start rolling in dough, we'd still argue on how to spend it. a close second would probably be on arguments on how the kids are raised like if there's a certain trait we would like our kids to be exposed to or not but those are less frequent
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
23 Feb 13
In my opinion, ego, education, dominant, jealousy, money etc are the common reason for argument in their family life . I am also a wife, we have struggle each other but we became friends with minutes .
2 Mar 10
My husband and I don't argue either, but a recent UK poll suggested the one thing couples argue most about is money and/or lack of it.