A major relationship confusion...
March 3, 2010 12:00pm CST
I am a guy of 20, have a very good friend who is a girl of my age. I know her since the last two years, his cousin brother was my classmate. Now after being so friendly with her I have some feelings for her, I have feelings of love for her, I feel like I cannot live without her. I want to tell her, but I am afraid that she might get angry and that might hamper our such a pure and pristine friend relationship. And again his cousin brother was my classmate, so it becomes a little awkward for me to approach her. Please help me guys and gals out there, what should I do? The best part of this whole thing is that, she is really a very cool and bindaas type of gal, has all the good traits, very beautiful etc. I have all my similarities and dissimilarities in coincidental to her, our choice is quite often the same, there are a lot of things that lies common in both of us. What to do, plz help me, I really need everyone's guidance and support! ~cheerio~
3 Mar 10
hi dante, Though it's too early for you to choose and decide at the age of only 20,I'd ask you to call both of them before disclosing any secret to none of them.Then do the following. Addressing both of them: There is something that I want to tell you because I want to come clean out of dilemma I've been suffering from. Addressing you girl, (by name looking straight to her eyes),we've been friends do long and we know each other.I don't know what you do feel about me,but I do love you and I want you to be with me forever. Addressing your friend, I called you because I'm about to make a relationship and commitment for life that include you and all the members of your family.Though I don't have the privilege of making a statement right now,but I promise I'll not leave a stone unturned to make her happy in life.
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3 Mar 10
Well, the only way to do this, is to go to her and tell her how you feel. Forget the cousin and all around you. You know each other for two years already. I cannot see the problem. You will never know, by wondering about it. Just talk to her and ask how she feels. Good Luck. TATA.
4 Mar 10
if you are already sure of your feelings and ready to face the consequences of your action in case you will court her, then there is nothing wrong with that. you can go on with your feelings and decision to court and express your feelings towards her.
4 Mar 10
Hey dante! Ask the girl out.Go dating at first and see how it feels. I think 20 is such a young age to go for a very serious relationship. That is a start though. I hope that you could tell her how you feel. Are you willing to risk the friendship you have to go to the next level? That's very hard because you have been really close... Good luck and I hope that it would really work out!