Break-ups 101

Philippines
March 3, 2010 7:37pm CST
Ever had you heartbroken, your world stops in an instant? Where you the one who left? Or did she/he? Was it your fault? was it hers/his? did you try to patch things up? was it pointless? Ever felt betrayed and used? Did you actually survive? how? what pulled you through? care to share your experiences in the nasty subject of breaking-up...
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@basqui (3888)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
well i was dumped last month by my GF. She said she has a new one now and she said it's because i lacked attention towards our relationship. Thank God i survived it. i'm with a new girl now and i don't think if i would go back to her. friendship only may be.
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
how long were you together? 1 month and you've moved on so easily. good for you though..
@basqui (3888)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
wow! i remembered we've had 5 years to waste!. I met her in my college days, i was 4th year at that time. she went abroad to work at Kuwait for two years and i waited, then a year after she came back and she dumped me. maybe i have my downs. i'm not that perfect bF.
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
i guess no ones perfect when in come to relationships. the good thing with you though i suppose is it was not sudden. she had to leave for work, which was a good reason. and so you had a chance to get used to not being with her... with some, it's sudden. more tragic in a way.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
4 Mar 10
Welcome to myLot pinoylove During those teens days I did experience heartbroken days. During those very young and immature days I was easily got hurt. And times and friendships were the best remedy to heel the sorrow and broken heart. I feel how ridiculous I was when come to think of those younger days. It sounds that young and innocent teens always tends to throw oneself into sensation and relationship fully without any hesitation once falling in love with someone. Hopefully such undesirable heartbroken feeling caused by the unsteady and easily comes relationship and goes easily as well. Happy posting
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
5 Mar 10
Good...
• Canada
4 Mar 10
I can relate very much....
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
4 Mar 10
Welcome to my lot I can so relate to this topic.... My first love that I had was when I was very young and we had a son together at a very young age and didn't last....But then when we were adults I thought he had changed and we got our family back together and had a daughter together....Then we lost a baby together and just before the year anniversary he walked out us.... I married him this time around and we are now divorced....I was devasted that he had did this to me again....I have heard so many things said about me behind my back....I don't think it was eithers fault we both played a part I still feel love for him but am strong and deserve much better..... Happy Mylotting!!!!!
@visijay32 (447)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
My world stopped when my first girlfriend broke up with me; however, that doesn't mean you have to stop yourself. It was so long ago and it doesn't matter who's fault was it. All I can remember are the memories that we've made during those years. What I did then was to focus my sadness and bitterness to better myself I've opened up to meeting other people, to be a friend to them. Though I want to mend things to the way they were; however, if the other one is not willing then it is time to let go. I make it a point to always keep positive outlook with a strong faith that someday I will meet the woman for me and indeed I've met her.
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
i experienced a lot of ups and downs in a relationships, i wandered around for years and experience handful of heartaches, but i always see to it that when i am already out of the relationship, i could move on. i cried the pain out, and tell myself that it would never be my lost because when i am in a relationship, i do the right thing. i do what is supposed to be done so the relationship will work. for i always believe that every tears shed over heart aches and breakups are for the words left unsaid and deeds left undone.
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
I've been to a lot of break ups but the last one really got me lost. Nowhere to go even if I've had friends all over. No one to speak with even if I can talk freely. I feel so alone even if I'm in a crowd. I became a party goer and just the need to go out pushes me to forget the pain. Good thing I realized am just killing myself. Now am trying to do the things I do alone.More happy about it that fighting the feelings that are inside.