What do I need to changed about myself?

Philippines
March 4, 2010 7:52am CST
Hi. Ask yourself what do you need to changed about yourself? The attitude of saying bahala na or come what may. Way back being a student I often say during our exams come what may(bahala na) if I fail or if I pass. After I graduate when applying for jobs I don't review the company's profile and even don't bother to be prepared.. And so on. That attitude is what I want to change about myself.
4 responses
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
if we think we are already happy with ourselves then why bother to change if theres any problem with it. but if we think tht somehow we are disturb by our certain attitude then of course we must give time to think about it for the better and lets see if it will work. theres nothing bad to scan ourself once in a while and think if theres something that we need to change. as for me, i guess i need to change my attitude, im just too friendly to the point that most of the people around me took advantage of it, to the point tht i lost my money, gadget, laptop and etc because i trusted too much and im too friendly for hem. i was just thinking of making my friends and people near me as part of my family but i guess im wrong.
@ralphido (842)
• India
4 Mar 10
yeah...I would like to hear from someone who doesn't think that there needs to be any change at all. you are as perfect as it ever can get.. there is nothing out of place in yourself...
@phoenix8606 (4942)
4 Mar 10
hi! just go and see my discussion about changing ourselves and you will find the answer because no matter who force us to change or how much want we to change ourselves, we must stay the one we are, because that is our identity, that is our real face and if we change, we just become one of the many people, who have no identity, no personality, no face- one of the many unknown ones!
@basqui (3888)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
i have to change the way i spend money. i lose money easily because i don't save much now even if i'm earning enough.