Leftie! What Challenges Have You Encountered Being Left Handed??

@artistry (4152)
United States
March 4, 2010 12:13pm CST
Are you left handed? What, if any issues have you had to deal with being left handed? Does it make that much of a difference in daily life? What, if any changes could be made, to make life easier for a left handed person? Share your thoughts.
6 responses
@marguicha (216271)
• Chile
4 Mar 10
I have been in a right handed world for so long, that I can´t think of many challenges. I remember that writting was difficult when I was little because my hand made the page completly messy. I learnt eventually how to write without having that problem. I also discovered very early in life that even if I was not a grown up, I had the right to choose my place at the table. Fortunatly my father, a doctor and a scientist, helped me have my way. The same thing happened at school. He would go every term to tell the teachers that I was NOT to write with my right hand. Those were the times when teachers could punish you for being a leftie. The only thing that I don´t like now is when I go to those elegant restaurants and ask for fish. The fish knives are made for right handed people. I have to ask the waiter to bring me a normal knife and explain. But on the whole, I was raised in knowing that there were some other lefthanded people I could look up to. When I was little I said" Leonardo da Vinci, Napoleon and I". I taught that to my youngest daughter, lefthanded like me. Happy posting!
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@artistry (4152)
• United States
5 Mar 10
...Hi marguicha, That's funny, but I love it, what great company to be in? The other thing is that left-handed people are thought to be smarter than right-handed people. Or when I see someone on television writng with their left hand, I always say, oh they must be smart. I just think it elevates you a bit when you are left handed. It's good to think you are somehow special, helps you in a competative world. "o) Thanks for your reply and take care.
@marguicha (216271)
• Chile
5 Mar 10
I have also heard that lefties are smarter. But I´m sure that is a myth. There are smarts ans dumbs in every group of people. It´s the same as saying a race or genrew is smarter than the other. Of course, I DO say to myself when I´m depressed: you are a leftie, so you are smarter.
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@artistry (4152)
• United States
5 Mar 10
...Heyyy, There's no proof of lefties being smarter, I wouldn't put it in with the race thing, only because with those you can't change your race or gender, but you could probably force yourself with a lot of pain to function as a right handed person. "o( Just a thought. But you are right, smarts here, smarts there, as are otherwise. Take care. Leftie's are great, I want to know if there is a book about the left-handed people in history? TIE
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
So far, the only challenge that I have been struggling with daily is my position at the table. I always make sure I get the spot on the corner, where my left elbow won't hit anything or anyone. It's hard. I noticed this with lefties. We have a tendency to over stretch or position our arms so that it extends a wider space and everytime that happens to me, I just feel uncomfortable.
• United States
4 Mar 10
It is not that you over extend you arm, it is usually becuase you are sitting next to someone who is right handed and it you both move your fork to your mouth at the same time your elbows are going to hit. I know this is a problem as both of my children are left handed. I have watched them eat and sitting side by side they do fine but if you sit one of them next to me and the other next to their dad the elbow wars break out. LOL
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@artistry (4152)
• United States
5 Mar 10
...Hi melloncollie, It seems that you are trying to accomodate for the left and right arm fight as the two of you mentioned. I can understand that you would want to have only space on your left side when eating, makes a lot of sense. Hopefully that is the worst thing that you have to put up with and that otherwise, it's not so bad. Thanks so much for responding. Is your mom or dad left-handed? Take care.
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
Yes that's it. That has been my problem oversince. Imagine the look on my father's face when I get to sit on his place... the head of the table. He had to adjust. He didn't like the idea of me squinting as I move the fork into my mouth afraid that I might hit my siblings.
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@coolcoder (2018)
• United States
5 Mar 10
I would think that left-handed people wouldn't face any more challenges than those who are right-handed. It's not a disease or anything...you can't become disabled just because your left hand is the dominant one. The whole notion that left-handed people somehow are freaks is ridiculous to me. They're just like anyone else.
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@artistry (4152)
• United States
5 Mar 10
...Hi coolcoder, Where are they being thought of as freaks, never in my days here on earth have I ever ran into anyone who thought of left haned people as freaks, that's a little harsh, don't you think? All of us, and I do mean all of us, come under some stupid thought process, that makes a person or persons say something simple. Short people, tall people, for sure fat people, skinny people, polish people, german, english, black, yellow, tiny eyed people, big footed people, big eared people, big nosed people, stubby fingered people, big headed people. Big lipped people, skinny lipped people and a myrid of the imperfect human beings as we all are, get laughed at, or said somthimg about, which may be mean spirited. Doesn't make anyone of them a freak. We laugh and keep on walking. All of us are different than all of us, please think that anyone is thinking of left handed people as freaks. You have a gripe, don't displace it. You should express what that gripe is. So what's the problem? Or is that all you wanted to say, if so thanks for your input, take care.
• United States
4 Mar 10
Not being left handed myself, but raising two left handed children, the biggest problem we have encountered is having someone teach them how to write properly. Since most of thier teachers have been right handed they have sometimes not shown them the proper way to form script letters as it is difficult to show someone if you can not do it yourself. We have overcome this becuase my sister is also left handed and can help them when they need it.
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@artistry (4152)
• United States
5 Mar 10
...Hi sleepylittlerose, Good job. I am learning for the first time, that hand writing, just the forming of the letters can be difficult for left-handed children and they need help, from those who can give them direction. It is good that your sister is there to help your little ones. Thanks for your very interesting response. Take care.
• India
4 Mar 10
i am not left handed but i am interested in writing with left hand many times i tried to practice writing with left hand... i want full grip with left hand as much as right hand having..... but failed to get it.... left handed people get some nice attention in crowd and there is some myth that people who are lefties can use there brain effectively as usage of both sides of brain is divided...
@artistry (4152)
• United States
4 Mar 10
...Hi kiran007, Interesting that you want to learn to write left-handed. I read somewhere or maybe heard, that if you use your non-dominate hand to do things, such as brush your teeth, hold your coffee cup or whatever, you will begin to build new brain cells. So keep trying to learn to write with your left hand. I think left-handed people are preceived to be smarter than right-handed people, but I don't know that it can be proven. Thanks for your response, take care.
@RangaGirl (103)
• Australia
5 Mar 10
Doors can be a challenge because they tend to open into us. I wish appliance manufacturers would stop putting the knobs on the righthand side. Us lefties have to stand to the right of the CD player or whatever to operate it, rather than being able to stand in front of it. Otherwise we have our arm across our body to use the knobs and buttons. My righthanded mother gave up on teaching me how to knit. Because my son teaches me songs on his guitar righthanded, I hold and play a guitar the righthanded way. We learn to adapt in a righthanded world.
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@coolcoder (2018)
• United States
5 Mar 10
They do make left-handed guitars; you just haven't found them yet. Also, as far as knitting, look on the Web and you'll find instructions for left-handed people. The thing about the CD player...my stereo's got knobs on the left-hand side, so needless to say, there are appliances to suit lefties.
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@artistry (4152)
• United States
5 Mar 10
..Hi thereRangaGirl, Now I had to stop and think about that one, and think about opening a door with my left hand, it would be awkward. Are ther left handed scissors? I am confusing myself with the guitar, I think one of my friends who plays the guitar is left handed, so I will make him tell me the difference with the guitar. "o) Sounds like you have done well overall. You could probably be a consultant to an appliance company and make them aware of how to open up their market to left handed people. Thanks for the insight, take good care.
• Australia
5 Mar 10
Yes, you can buy all sorts of things for lefthanders but, I'm in the minority in my house and just use righty stuff. As for the guitars, I'm used to playing righthanded. We do have one advantage. We have an amazing backhand in racquet sports from constantly playing against righthanders. Playing us in games like softball or cricket, they have to completely rearrange their field.
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