how do you feel when people give more attention to your partner?

@ksmita (513)
India
March 5, 2010 1:00pm CST
hi. there are very few 'PERFECT COUPLES' . most of the time, one partner will be more perfect (according to certain people) than other. how do you feel when people keep appreciating or giving more attention to your partner than you. do you feel neglected, jealous, happy , proud, left out....?
3 responses
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
14 Mar 10
I would really feel very proud for my boyfriend. It appears to other people that I've made a good choice for picking him up. The dilemma is that people will look at it in different way. Some people think I am not too good for him, some other will think I am maybe a social climber. Nevertheless, what matters is what we feel for each other. So if ever people finds my boyfriend a good catch I'll be proud and happy because I have him and he loves me.
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@jlcanete (22)
• Thailand
9 Mar 10
I know my husband very well. I know his strengths and if people see and appreciate them, i would definitely feel happy and proud coz with me, he shines. I don't feel bad if our friends say that my partner is far better than me or sings better than me etc. I guess this is what marriage is all about, being able to grow more with your partner and find inspiration from each other.
• United States
5 Mar 10
My husband and I have been together 20 years....so we both just get a kick out of it. Unless of course it goes to far.... I remember it being a much bigger deal when we were first together and younger..LOL But, with age comes a certain amount of "acceptance" lol. We are lucky as we are still very much in love with each other. I think I would choose the word "proud" as it just proves even more , that I am a very lucky woman.