Have you ever wished you were more outgoing or courageous?

@wigima5 (908)
United States
March 5, 2010 10:16pm CST
I know I have. I sometimes don't FEEL like I'm someone tats going to college in a year. I still feel like a small kid. I'm usually the quiet one, and although I am confident, I never am really the leader. I never really was, and so it feels foreign to me. But I WISH i was stronger, and more independent, and a leader. Someone who felt completely confident in their decisions, and other people could look up to. Instead I often doubt myself and think less of myself when it comes to leadership n prefer to follow. Do you ever feel that way?
1 response
@skbrence (476)
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
Hi there wigima5... I haven't yet wished for this one because obviously, I am really outgoing... =)) I just live my life happily and to the fullest... =)) Anyways, in your case, I would suggest that you find your most trusted, beloved, and true friend... Find those who are also outgoing... Try staying or going with them so that somehow, you would adapt their outgoing behaviors... (the good ones...) =))
@wigima5 (908)
• United States
6 Mar 10
well, then ur really lucky! :D I am outgoing once i get to know someone. but if i meet someone new, or am in class, im quiet. n most of the time its just because I can't think of anything to say. i guess im just kinda boring, or just calmer than some other ppl.