Why ? When U show that U Care they will ...take your feelings for granted?

Hi IJ! It is somehow because they have fallen to a wrong person. Maybe most guys are like that, taking girls for granted. Treating them as a material that they can collect, maybe they are only thinking of their own happiness, and they don't consider the feelings of other persons, especially those girls that they have made cried. But of course not all guys are like that, there are also guys who are faithful to their love ones. I think what important is respect, it should always be present. As long as there is respect between two lovers, their relationship will be ok. A good guy should have a thinking that girls should be treated nicely and never make them cry. So for girls, they should not get afraid to fall in love, as long as they are falling to a good guy. If they are still not sure, just always ask for God's guidance. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!

Hi cloud! I think if I say to someone that I care for her, I will have to show my caring attitude through my conduct and various gestures, which I would do to her from time to time. After certain gap some gestures are needed to be repeated so that things may not be taken for granted.

some people are like that sometimes. and they don't realize the value of someone, not until they will lost them. i think it is because, they will only appreciate something if they don't have it and when that one thing is already on their hands, the importance will be lost.

i always say that love is like an icing on a cake. love is a gift of fate that fate gives us when we do justice to our very own life. this is why we are a reflection of what our partner is. anyway, one should live one's life first the way it should be lived. if one is working one should work hard and continue to develop or invest in his personal and professional improvement so much so that when fate does bring love it brings a very, very special kind of love. a cake without an icing would do just fine, right? a cake with an icing would be great. so much so life without love (which only happens for a short time) would be just fine but someone who loves without his or her own life is like an icing without the cake. it looks good and tastes good but pretty much useless. so one should go get a life first so they say. so, if ever the one you will love would turn out to be a donkey's behind then at least one is believable when one says it is his loss not mine.

I'm a man only to find happy in life! I think if you love somebody, you should bring happy to him/her! Just like the Bible says: the love is that you continue to devote but don't want to be paid back! I think if your love is truly, you should not care about what he/she said or did! And you will happy too!

Hi friend...I read to your comment. they have too much problem It's not my obligation, to stay here to solve them But I still pay attention and read real closely. I say I'm your friend, but you don't really know me.

i think its what you call being comfortable in a relationship and sadly i've experienced it as well with an ex. at first he will do everything to please you and make you love him even more then when you have already succumb to his amorous gestures he will be as cold as ice after a few months or years that you're together. its not that he doesn't like me anymore, i guess men has an instinct like an animal that they like the hunting process. if the prey is no longer hard to catch, they lose interest. that's what happens sometimes in a relationship.

I think it is in human nature.. most of my friends have been through this.. when they are being nice and good to somebody.. well they will always get played.. I don't understand human.. how could they be so cruel... they do have heart don't they??