My daughter has changed because of grandparents.

@ediona (148)
Romania
March 9, 2010 3:03am CST
I dont know what to do.When my girl goes to the grandparents comes completely changed,is demure,talk bad and she dont listen me not at all.I have to punish and after a while she listen to me.What sould i do?'m leaving her to visit grandparents or to prohibit them.
4 responses
@Ravenladyj (22992)
• United States
9 Mar 10
How old is your daughter? Do the grandparents spoil her from what you've seen? is it your parents or her dads parents?? have you talked to them about it?
@ediona (148)
• Romania
9 Mar 10
Yes is very spoil ther,i thalk to them and they say"What to do she dont listen to me,i can not punish her or yell "is their first granddaughter.
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
The grandparents, since they are the adults, should sometimes need to show discipline and firmness even if she is their first granddaughter. That is a very lame excuse. If they really love their granddaughter, they should rightfully discipline her when needed so that she can become a well-rounded person.
@rohz1906 (205)
• India
9 Mar 10
How often does she go to her grand parents place? does she like to come back home or does she sulk?How old is she? There could be umpteen reasons for her to react bad.sit with her and talk to her not straight to the point but a lot of other things leading to her upside...in short beat around the bush you'll find what's troubling her.
@ediona (148)
• Romania
9 Mar 10
Every day and barely able to bring her home,it has 6 years.
• Malaysia
9 Mar 10
Hmmm... maybe you should have a talk with her. You know.. get her the food she likes.. treat her nice... and when she feels happy and is all smiley.. ask her why she acted bad each time after she came home from her grandparents. And.. is she has some problems.. try to resolve them... aside from that.. you can also try to talk to your parents about it. haha
@ediona (148)
• Romania
9 Mar 10
They are not my parents,are my husband parents.And i know why she avt like that because my in-law accept any fad and all the freedom.There may be any like,can not accept this must heve some limits.
@binagupta (628)
• India
9 Mar 10
make her understand very nicely try to solve problems behave friendly with her so, that very easily she comes and tell you her problem.