Men who won't date women with "mixed" children

United States
March 10, 2010 3:53pm CST
I've always been curious about the mindset of men who are fine dating you knowing you have a child until they discover the child is mixed. So many seem shocked when they discover my child is half latino I always hear 'Your kid is Mexican!' (actually he's half Ecuadoran) They only know due to his name, do I just live in the wrong geographic area? I know the problem is definitely with the guy and not me and certainly not my son (he's precious and beautiful).
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5 responses
• United States
10 Mar 10
I know your son is beautiful! I can't believe people are actually so weak minded. But at least you know they are whack up front and don't waste time dating before you find out they are not worth it!
@mrsl2008 (634)
10 Mar 10
Hi, I can't believe people are that narrow minded in todays world!! My sister in law has a mixed race child, (White & Black african), she's absolutely gorgeous & my 2 year old is the spitting image of her in white. They live in a small village and she is the only black kid in the village. Needless to say she gets very sensitive about her skin colour. The sister in law also has another girl who is 2 and her daddy is white, the 7 yr old calls him dad as she never knew her dad who is back in Africa I believe. A little off track I think I went there but the point is, there are good men out there. Just don't waste time on the idiots x Good luck Mrsl x x
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@ibuemma (2953)
• United States
11 Mar 10
He definitely has problem ( the guy you are dating ). My children are mix too. And they are beautiful. World will become a better place if we can see how this mixing are beautiful !
• United States
12 Mar 10
I think people are misreading what I wrote, I'm not dating anyone. I refused to date the guy. I just find it odd that would bother someone.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
Maybe you're choosing somebody who's not worth it for you. I guess you should find sometime to deal with a guy for quite some time and that's the time when you begun opening up your child to him. If he won't stay then he's no good but if he's still willing them maybe he's the right one for you... Happy mylotting. :)
• Malaysia
12 Mar 10
The man that you are dating is (sorry to say this) a bit racist. So what if your son is mixed, that makes no difference. In my country especially in my state, most of us are of mixed races. There are no big fuss and we even anticipate the birth of a new born because we just can't wait to see just how beautiful the child would be. In my opinion, you should keep the baby and lose the guy. You and your son deserve a better man who can see your son just as precious and beautiful as you sees him.
• United States
12 Mar 10
I think people are misreading what I wrote, I'm not dating anyone. I refused to date the guy. I just find it odd that would bother someone.