need help

United States
March 11, 2010 9:03am CST
what would u do if the love of ur life calls you up and ask if you would like to have him or her,and you have been waiting for this for a very long time but he or she lives in another state and u have made a peromise to someone to help them until they have a place where they are good without having to worry on if they will be on the streets or not.should you get the person u love to come to or not.i have this mine called and wants me to either talk with my cousin to go to him or have it to where he comes here.but i just dont know anymore and need some help to see what i should do please help me out. thank you
2 responses
• Nigeria
12 Mar 10
can you kindly make yourself clear. I really dont understand your point here.
• United States
12 Mar 10
what i am saying is that the love of my life has asked to be with me.he lives in another state and i have told my cousin that i would help her until i know she is able to make rent and other things before i move.i am wanting to know if i should get him to come here or let him stay there and find someone else.mostly because he would be close to his daughter.so my things is what should i do?i love him but don't want to make cousin mad at me because i want to be with him.
• Nigeria
12 Mar 10
Ok, I understand you now. I really admire your desire to put your cousin above yourself and your relationship in this case. You have shown yourself to be unselfish despite your longings. I would like you to answer this very simple question. Do you think the young man prefers to be with you or his daughter? Have you asked if he desires to have an apartment so you can move in with him rather than him moving in with you? Why cant your cousin stay with both of you inn the same house? So help yourself to these questions and i trust you will come out with a solution. The answer still lies in your best decision. Have a great life.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
Actually it's up to you if you wanted to engage in a long distance relationship. I think you're really into that person so there's nothing wrong if you'll fight you love for that somebody. :)