Do you give in to situations in order to avoid conflicts?

@mich_23 (120)
Philippines
March 12, 2010 2:46am CST
You sometimes find it hard to argue especially when you dont want to create a gap, so do you sometimes just agree in order to avoid conflicts?
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6 responses
• Germany
12 Mar 10
I don't like conflicts. I am one who always avoid the acute angle. I like to live in peace with myself and with others. If i am about to be in one, i usually stop it and leave the discussion in oblivion.
@mich_23 (120)
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
thanks for your response!
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
sometimes i do that when i feel that i am tired of arguing with others. but if i know that i am right and they are not i will not agree on them. it depends on my mood swing.
@mich_23 (120)
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
right, because sometimes when we feel like we have to argue at a certain point we do that but if not then we just let it be. Same with you, depends really on my mood.
• United States
13 Mar 10
Yes. I am definitely known as the peacemaker.
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
Parrying any threat when it fuels the fight is an obsolete song for me. I don't want to win against older people because it's just unimaginable. Besides, they are always right. The fun begins when they realize that I was the one right.
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
Talk about diplomacy. But then I tend to show you that I agree with the person that I'm arguing with. But what they don't know is that I am subtly trying to manipulate them. Reverse psyching them. I don't give up in argument that easily. I like to put up a fight, but not in a way that they would think I am pushing it. Just still trying my best to make them realize it according to my own diplomatic and subtle terms.
@frissph (130)
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
If it's someone I don't care about then I don't care much for gaps but for those that I care about I'd agree sometimes then bring up the topic soon when they've cooled off so that we can talk about it. I dislike letting volatile issues remain unresolved more than giving in to arguments