how we can identify our best friend?
@KHANRABIULLAH (561)
India
March 13, 2010 5:07am CST
hello my friends i am here to discuss something with you on above topic that is ho can we identify our best friend?
i know you all our confused but i can explain you, i have many freinds but most of are only friend of name. how? they are only with me till their work is related with me and when their work is finished they show me back and never come back till they need me.
so my friends i think you all are getting my feelings . please help me to identify the real friend, i hope my request will be granted.
i am waiting for your comments please try to reply soon, your friend khan.
7 responses
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
13 Mar 10
Hi, that sounds like a bunch of nasty people. Okay, this is what you do. Next time you meet some friends, look closely at how they really behave towards you. If they have this make up laughter or just this make me happy faces, send them away. Real friends will stick by you and those are the only ones that will be with you after the others have left. It is not easy, but you will get the hang of it. TATA.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
14 Mar 10
I strongly agree with you on this point as there are nasty ones in this world that happen to destroy in bonding of everyone. True friends are not easy to find as they are earned by lot of struggle as they might be in front of us as we might not be able to see them. i hop that you have find true ones as i have not yet so.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
14 Mar 10
I strongly agree with you on this point as there are nasty ones in this world that happen to destroy in bonding of everyone. True friends are not easy to find as they are earned by lot of struggle as they might be in front of us as we might not be able to see them. I hoe that you have find true ones as i have not yet so.
@faridmadeabillion (1127)
• Bangladesh
17 Mar 10
Hey Bhai Khan,
Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah. I want to speak out some basic truths of life. It's not so easy to be a friend. A friend is the person who can be trusted always for getting help and assistance. There is a saying: "A friend is need is a friend indeed." Therefore now you must have understood that the people you're calling friends aren't your friends, they're opportunists. You should stay away from them. I'm your friend because I'm always ready to help you according to my ability. Though I'm staying very far away from you, I'm praying to Allah for your well-being. Friends are those people who can take any risk in helping you only for just causes. But if you're going to commit a crime, a friend shouldn't help you. A friend should be selfless in giving you help, support and assistance. This is how you can identify your best friend. May Allah bless you.
Have a friendly day.
@faridmadeabillion (1127)
• Bangladesh
18 Mar 10
Hey Bhai Khan,
Thank you very much for your prompt reply. Seems like you've already known how you can identify your true friends. I hope you'll get real friends as many as you want. May Allah bless you.
Have a nice day.
@KHANRABIULLAH (561)
• India
18 Mar 10
walaikum assalm wa rahematullahi wa barkaatahu,
farid bhai i am happy to see you again i also want to tell you that i am totally agree with you that the friend i.e. true friend should be selfless who help their friend knowing the result. but what about the friend who makes the friend bad i.e. who help to make bad habbit in his friend. what you say that is he is good or true friend? please my brother i also respect your feeling and i a really very happy to discuss with you. i think you will be agin meet me in my next discussion
have a nice day and allah gives you peacefull life with good wife.
allah hafiz
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@KHANRABIULLAH (561)
• India
14 Mar 10
hello my friend thank you for your comment. i had read your comment but i have one confusion that how can we identify them by spen time with them? please can you explain me please?
i want to tell you that when we spend time with them then they will try to act normal and they will have a duplicate smile on thier face(only to show us i.e.fake) and how can we know that what they are actually in their life and what they think about us? as when we are with them they will hide their real identity into one fake identity. please reply soon, your friend khan.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
Hi KHANRABIULLAH,Well,best friend is always there in times of difficulties.For me,it is one of my signs to identify a real and true friends.Through thick and thin and not only in times of happiness.A true best friend is someone whom we can rely for.Good luck.
@KHANRABIULLAH (561)
• India
14 Mar 10
hi friend thanks for your response and i agree with you that the friend which help in our difficulties is a true friend actually. but my friend i want to tell you that there are some peoples who never understand this things. they play with our heart and then use an throw us like some plastic glasses(use and throw glass) i am telling that this peoples are very poor that they are away from the real happiness as real happiness is in giving sacrifice for our friend.
i hope you had been understood that what i want to tell? please reply with your comment that what you think about my comment are you agree with me? i also want to tell you that please also tell me that do you have some true friends then please tell me and also please if you want to share more points about true friendship then please tell me and you are most welcome.
please try to reply soon, your friend khan.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
Hi,KHARANBIULLAH,Yes, i agree with you,because there were friends that they only exist when they need you.Yes,I have lots of friends but there were only few true and real best friend.I treasured them because I love and I care for them.Besides it is very hard to find a true and real friend.Another tips in having a true friend is always look in your friends positive side never mind the negative side.For me I always look for the positve side.What is important to me is we understand each other.Be a good listener to your friend and let them feel that you care for them.I'm so sorry for the late response because I was inactive this past few weeks due to some family circumstance.Thanks,Good evening.
@KHANRABIULLAH (561)
• India
15 Mar 10
hi friend thanks for your response and i agree with your comment that the true friend is that who will with us at time of trial and also i want to tell you that this comment is already given by one of my friend in above comments but then also i am thankfull to you for responding my discussion, i respect your feelings and if you want to share some more things then you are most welcome my friend. i am waiting for your reply eagerly my friend, your friend
khan rabiullah
@scja16 (322)
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
For me real friends are those who are always there with you through ups and downs of your life. It does not matter how but he/she will make sure to help to whatever problems I have. And the most important is whether we are far from each other, that person will find a way to communicate with me. There are a lot kinds of people same with having friends, then from there you can choose who is the best that can fit to as your best friend.God bless
@KHANRABIULLAH (561)
• India
16 Mar 10
hi friend thanks for my responding my discussion and i am agree with your comment. i really like the friends who like to help each other in need and not thos who is only friends for name. i am feeling myself very lucky because i am getting so beautifull comments from all. i am really thankfull to you and i also pray to god for you that they will give you true knowledge in life and also good life.
your friend
khan.
@TheAdvocate (2392)
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
Maybe you are limiting yourself to work friends? Although it is possible to bond with work friends (in fact I have a lot of work friends), but the bond that you share is limited. You should look at friends from school and your neighborhood. I do not have a lot of friends, but the friends that I have have been with me for a long time. I have several best friends in fact. Try to expand your horizon and look elsewhere. Hope that helped!
@KHANRABIULLAH (561)
• India
14 Mar 10
hi friend thanks for your response and i want to tell you that i had read your comment and it is intresting that you are having true freinds. do you know why i had said that? i think you might be know that, but then also listen i had said that because in this modern world there are very small number of people like this as we can count them on fingers and you are very lucky that you are having that friends with you. i want to tell you that i am also having many true friends which are ready to help me when i need them.
please tell me that are you having some more point to discuss with me than please you are most welcome. please try to reply soon, your friend khan.
