Where do you usally confess your big problem?

@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
March 14, 2010 8:02am CST
Hello guys, there were lots of people said they prefer to express their sentiments or confess their problems first to their best friend rather than to her/his direct relatives and family circle...How about you which one will you be your problem comforter? Your friends or your family circle? Mobhommeir here..
8 responses
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
hello daddy mob, actually whenever i have a big problem, first thing that i do is to pray and ask for God's help & guidance...it makes me stronger and it gives me comfort specially when i feel His presence and that He's listening to me... i wanted to keep the problem to myself and try to solve it my own, i just don't like giving my family some worries and with my friends, i don't really have that very close friend that i feel like sharing big & personal problems with... but there are times that i feel like i can't handle it my own, and i need someone to talk to about it, i say it to my husband. since he's the nearest family to me... when i am not married yet, its my mom to whom i run to... how about you?
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
Hi iloime like what you would always do I did it also. Yes it feels so relaxing and comforting when you surrender your burdens to Him because this what He likes for us. And it is already proven in my life..secondly it depends on what kind of problems to whom i would talk for it..maybe for just expressing it out to lighten your feeling.. There were problems with corresponding special person whom you can express it... Depends on what kind of problems... Thanks for responding iloemi... Mobhomeir here...
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@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
yeah...depends on what kind of problem...like for example, my problem is my husband, i will not tell it to anyone around me here...haha just kidding! if my problem is family related, its my husband whom i will share it with... yeah, God is waiting for us to seek Him... and no one will really can help us except Him... thanks for the br daddy! and hope everything is well now!
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
if i have big problem i tried to solve it on my own. but if i cant do it then i will open it up to my friends, only then i will know whose my real friends are if they will stick to me no matter what. if its about financial problem, i rather want to go to my parents as i know they are the only person whom i can trust when it comes to money problem.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
You said it well my friend...thanks for responding then...
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
15 Mar 10
just like the lamb, i come here to where my friends and at the same time my family. although i have offline friends and family with me, i feel more comfortable talking about problems on here.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
I see my friend...I respect that..thanks for responding...
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
14 Mar 10
I would probably want to talk to my friends before my family. I have found the best person for me to tell my problems to is someone uninterested. I was seeing a therapist for awhile and I could tell her more things than my friends becuase I knew she wouldn't be hurt or upset. The advice she gave me was objective and therefore sometimes more helpful.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
Yeah that was also happened to me my friend that's why I understand your side...Cheers and thanks for responding my friend.. Mobhomeir here..
• Japan
14 Mar 10
I usually keep things to myself. Do not want to bother them with my problem and do not want to burden them at all. Always try to solve things by myself and that's it.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
So am i my friend but when I feel it would be too heavy I would be looking for a best friend who I can express and voice-out my feeling to make me feel relax but firstly there would be nothing more relaxing if you would have to surrender all burdens first to our Heavenly Father...thanks for responding my friend.. Mobhomeir here..
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 10
Usually if I have a big problem I will pray first to calm me inside and reach my common sense. Then I told my problem to someone I think might help it can be family or friend, depend on the problem it self. But if so big and related to my future I will tell my family especially mom and dad, I don't want them to hear the problem from others.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
Hello nangisha you have fair statement...thanks for responding ... Mobhomeir here...
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
14 Mar 10
Nobody....I dont like to have outside opinions or influences when I'm facing a major issue or problem.....I much prefer to come up with a solution on my own..
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
14 Mar 10
yep..*spit..DING...* LOL
• Malaysia
14 Mar 10
for me.. It also depend on what the big problem.. If i have problem with my own family, i maybe prefer to confee my problem to my friend.asking for some opinion or motivation..:)
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Mar 10
Yeah,,,I respect your statement my friend..thanks for responding... Mobhomeir here..