I am a lesbian, so what?

March 15, 2010 11:26am CST
I m in love with a girl when I was 14. Today I found her at facebook. It happens that everybody in high school seems to know that I admire her when I was 14. Now am 29. I sent a message to her saying I want to be her friend, but she never replied. Does she know it is me that haunts her for the past?
3 responses
@sushie93 (1359)
• France
15 Mar 10
Or maybe she never check her Facebook or her mailbox... Just wait. But if she doesn't reply, try to frget about this friendship.
@dianmelydia (2272)
• Indonesia
15 Mar 10
Life is all about choice. Being a lesbian is your choice, so you also need to be prepared for all the sacrifices if some people don't like you for any reason. I think that girl was know about you haunting her on the past. Especially you both were on a same school at that time. We all know that a school, no matter how big is it, still it's a limited area. And if someone like other people, it's very easy for other people to know about it. I think better we don't negative thinking about that girl first. Perhaps she is busy so she can't replying your message. But however, if you have lesbian track record that many people know about you, perhaps you need to be careful when communicating with that girl, just for preventing any unwanted situation. I believe that you want to be her friend of course. So, perhaps you can't expecting too much from her, but at least if you have a chance for become her friend then you need to respecting it fully. Good luck for you and have a nice day. Happy mylotting.
@ravinskye (8244)
• United States
15 Mar 10
It's possible that she knew you had a crush on her back then and she's worried you still do. She may be worried that if she replies to you you'll get the wrong idea. Or she's just one of those people who are uncomfortable by the idea of someone being a lesbian. I wouldn't waste your time on it. Some people just get can't out of that "highschool" mentality.