Would you forgive your spouse if you found out they were cheating on you?

@tifychau (127)
United States
March 17, 2010 1:09pm CST
I just found out that my husband has been seeing another woman for over a year now! I confronted him and he claimed it was because he needed something new and I wasn't able to fulfill his needs. He asked me to forgive him and said he'll stop seeing her for good if I do. I don't know what to do. If you found out your spouse, (or just boyfriend/girlfriend) was cheating on you, would you be able to forgive them? He broke the trust between us and I don't know if I'll be able to trust him again.
3 responses
@bobcFla (45)
• United States
17 Mar 10
I would not be able to forgive and forget the fact that the bond of trust has been forever broken. Just because they say they won't do it again that seed of doubt will unfortunately always be there.
@soulburn (414)
• Romania
17 Mar 10
No! I hate having romantic relationships! I help a lot of friends with their's and I know a lot of relations ships..How I said : No. Cheating is a clear sign that the relations ship GOT CONSUMED and there's nothing new to be added. Don't trust him again because if you restart the relationship because it will be based on dept and guilt not on love and true emotions . This is my advice to you. Take care and good luck!
• Canada
17 Mar 10
I dont think Id truly be able to forgive a person for that with my whole heart and soul. Even my head and body would fight against it. You can always forgive but never forget and that being never able to forget thing would force me to be unable to trust that person and see them inteh same light. Loyalty is extremely important to me.