should i take him back

Guyana
March 17, 2010 6:45pm CST
my daughter father was my world he was my first everything, he when to another country to optain a better standard of living for us cause he was not finding a job in our birth, 2 yrs pass and we were going good or so i thought until i found out he was in a relationship with someone i was so heart broken cause i thought we would always b together so i broken off the relationship now he is trying to get back together, i still have feelings for him so i am wondering should i take him back???? need help..
3 responses
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
I know the feeling like you wish everything would be like the way it was before. Like you still want the person and your still needing him but life must go on. Life is kinda cruel when you fall in love sometimes with someone who's not really meant for you but you have to accept life has to be like that. Guess its best to accept things and just think of your daughter's sake than thinking of him.
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
Yes. If you feel up to it and you believe that you can give him a second chance go for it. Love yourself, but also make sure you love yourself. I believe that you can never be able to give your best if you haven't given the best to yourself. If you don't do what's best for you. I might sound cryptic. But bottom line is love yourself. Then if you feel that you still love him and you're strong enough to take whatever comes from the second chance that you give him then go for it. You never know, it might've been the glue you guys needed all along to be stronger. :D
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
If he sounds sincere enough for you, a second chance might actually work it out. But that's all it is - a second chance. Not a third, fourth, fifth, etc. Also ask yourself this question: are you sure you can forgive your partner for whatever crime he has done? You might say you can, but it's not gonna be that easy - then I suggest give yourself time to heal first. And besides, he's supposed to win your trust back, not just get it by simply asking for it. If he really wants you back, you should be able to see some real effort on his part to win you again.