3 Jul 10
I am a woman and I do not know why men are so insensitive. That is actually my question too. I have the same question because my bf is like that. It seems like you need to tell him everything why I am acting like this and like that. I have a similar discussion like yours about men being insensitive. Most of the comments say that most guys are insensitive and they want their girls to tell what is wrong. I guess, that is part of the difference between men and women.
22 Mar 10
Men are not insensitive, they are just preoccupied. Men can't read minds. SO if you want something tell your friend about it. there's nothing that can't be solved if both parties will learn how to communicate with each other. It's OK to be mindful of your partner's feelings but we can't sense all the time. We too have our own troubles. We are not insensitive, we just don't know what you want.
22 Mar 10
i guess men are not insensitive, they just don't want to show their real feelings because they thought it could make them less of a man...but nevertheless there are some men who really cares and understand the feelings of a woman in their own way...it may not be the way we want to see it but in the way they are comfortable showing it...
21 Mar 10
Well. I don't think that generalizing that all men are sensitive to women is a good idea. Somehow, I can say that men are just being strong. Maybe, women just expect too much comfort from men. And when they don't get it, they always assume that men are sensitive. It's just a matter of either way: Whether men are naturally insensitive or women are exaggeratedly sensitive.