Marital affair

Malaysia
March 24, 2010 7:44am CST
This is the situation. A is married with two children, yet one day his wife seen him with his best friend's wife in a car caressing. A's wife confronted A about this and what he said to his wife is they are doing business. A's wife is sad and talk it to her children about what to do. In your opinion, what should A's wife do?
3 responses
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
What business was it specifically?
• Malaysia
25 Mar 10
selling cars
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
In that case, she should try something to help uncover the truth or at least explain her suspicion. She could hire a private detective if she could afford it.
@ouch88 (32)
9 Apr 10
On that case, maybe it's better not to tell her children about it. It may give them the idea that guys can't be trusted. The wife should live without his husband and find another man for her to have someone to be with when she's old.
• India
6 Apr 10
Many people think that if they trust the other then the person would never cheat. They base their conclusion on the premise that if you give the keys in the hands of a thief he would never rob you. Can you trust a rotten plank across the culvert? Will it not break no sooner you place your foot on it? Likewise, none should trust his or her spouse in marriage unless you have tried and tested the person. You must know the material of his or her character. Then only think that the person is trustworthy. Most of us marry on the premise that the person we are married to will not break our trust. In fact, we must marry them on a premise, what if they break our trust. Never commit yourself in a relationship unless you are sure about the person. Do not proceed to build castles in the air and start having children unless you know that the other would behave responsibly and will not leave you in a lurch. If you have not taken sufficient precautions (I do not mean you but that married woman with two children) then she has no option but to sit there twiddling her fingers. It is wrong to think that her husband after she caught him red handed would change into a new leaf. He would never stop cheating her. The best thing for her to do is either leave him or reconcile with the situation. There is no other way out.