do you feel nervous before getting married?

India
March 25, 2010 4:25am CST
Hi MyLotters, Marriage is the most important event in our life when two persons promises to be with each other for life.Do you feel odd before the occasion?What are the feelings at that time.Let me know from you MyLotters. Thanks, Happy MyLotting!!
5 responses
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
25 Mar 10
If I were about to get married, I definitely feel nervous, and I might wonder if I am good enough for her; or if I would be able to provide all the needs she need. As a future husband, I would do all the best I can, and I would do whatever I can to make her happy.
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• China
25 Mar 10
when that time i got married,I didn't feel neverous.The boss of the wedding service company said that i can't sleep for the whole night,I said i will not.of course i sleep so well.
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• China
27 Mar 10
if i were marriage, i will be excited instead of nervous. because i considered nervous means to suspect the futher of wheather the relationship between his family and her family get along well, or there could be a monetary problems. i will expect i can bring happiness for him, and i can make the life better.
@dknkyle (446)
• Singapore
25 Mar 10
Well, I'm not married but just in the process of starting up a relationship with a girl I fancy. I've seen quite a few of my friends and relatives getting married and some of them do experience some sort of 'Bridal Blue' or so called 'Pre-marital Phobia', reasons being that they're about to end their so called 'singlehood' and move on to the next stage of their lives as husband/wife and eventually parents. The reason as to why they feel the blues/phobias is probably because they feel that they can no longer enjoy such carefree life after marriage as they will be living life as married couples and then starting up a family.
• China
25 Mar 10
if i were about to get married,i might fell afraid.i might worry about life in the future,not about money,but the relation of my family and his family.i hope my families could get along with his families,although.i also hope he will treat my mom as his mom.of course,i will do that first. maybe the day is really coming,i willn't think about anything and i will be a happy brides.
• Netherlands
26 Mar 10
I guess so. It's a giant leap or a giant decision at least. It's just nervousness I guess, but I guess it shall pass once you are married...