What should i do?
By dreamsharmin
@dreamsharmin (2281)
China
March 25, 2010 7:15am CST
One of my friend ask me this question.
He has one girl friend. Recently his girl friend ask him to breakup. As there relation will not be continue as there family will not agree with there relation. And his girl friend try to engage with someone else. This matter my friend knew as she told him. My friend try to continue the relation and he try to convince his girl friend. That we should continue the relation.
But his girl friend didn't agree. My friend has one ex-girlfriend. In this time his ex-girlfriend come back and they talk each other. As my friend present girl friend doesn't want to continue the relation. They talk so lovely. As my friend always honest with his relation.
But now his present girl friend want him back. His girl friend cry and doing wrong by hurting her by her own self. Now my friend ask me what should i do? He doesn't want to lost his ex-girlfriend again. And he also doesn't want to hurt his present girl friend.(Though the present girl friend ask him to break up. By the way today his present girl friend cut her hand by knife.
In this time what should he do? What?
Please my dear all friend i really need your opinion about this purpose as i will tell him to do the right thing.
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5 responses
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
First the present girlfriend only said she want break up for the reason that she feel suffocated with her boyfriend. Yes she said she wants break up but it doesnt mean she will be forever breaking up. Your friend must understand that women have limitation and they need to protect themselves from harm thats why the breakup idea came to her mind. His girl have some kind of claustrophobia with your friend although she much loves him. It goes to show that men must give some space for their girl or they will break up. Now this can be absurd to return to her but its a valid point to return. I think his ex will understand since she have more pillows that absorb the shock than his needy gf. The opposite choice which is to keep his ex and forget his present would be traumatic and his ex would feel guilty of snatching your friend from her.
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
I think your friend must choose the one who cut her hand. If you translate it to words it means "I will surpass any hindrance, I can change if I have to." As for his ex girlfriend, shes mainly for the fun and no love. She even let your friend be in love with the present. Is that love?
@getbiswa2000 (5545)
• India
25 Mar 10
Hi,
To be perfectly honest, I think your friend should get rid of both of those girls. I sense a subtle instability in character of both of these girls. A girl who cuts her hand is still not matured enough to be relied upon. She has left him once and, if is further allowed will desert him again. I think your friend should consult with other mature members of his family. Why is he bothering you about all these things? There is nothing you can do about it. The only one who can help him is he himself. Tell him to calm down and get detached of the whole situation right now before its too late. I think you also understand the gravity of the situation.
God bless you
@engrdng06 (248)
• Japan
25 Mar 10
For me, why choose from two girls with a little sense of maturity? For the girl who cuts her hand, every now and then when times are on the rocks, she will be doing it. So it´s like a blackmail on the part of your friend. For the ex-girlfriend of your friend which turns to be his girlfriend right now, she had leave him once. Consequences are, she can do it again. Know what, you´re friend is somewhat choosing two stones thats going to hit his head, his only point is which hurts less. Anyway,it´s his problem. Don´t be bothered with it.
@zashimi (148)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Things have become complicated and your friend just needs to decide if he wants to deal with them or not. The second ex just probably wants him back because he reconciled with the first ex. Cutting yourself is such a selfish act, why be with someone like that.
As for the first ex girlfriend. If you have resolved the reason for the break up, then fine. But if the issue keeps coming back, tell your friend to stay single for a while.
