how come i never hear you say i just wanna be with you?

If this guy can make time for his friends then he could also make time for you. If he really wanted to be with you he would. Don't waste your time and effort getting more involved because the more time you put into this relationship the more feelings you put into it and believe me the more feelings involved the harder it will be to back off when the time comes. Stop calling him and start going out with other friends at least and make him wonder where you are. Don't be acessable to him all the time if you are what he wants then he will see reason. If not leave him alone. Sorry if this sounds harsh but it will save alot of heartache later on. Hope you find the guy of your dreams honey and I hope they give you all the best.

I think that you just need to understand there are guys who are really not good in expressing how they feel. Not all guys do things like that. They rather be the macho type. If your really now your bf real well,you can tell if he's really serious or just busy. You should learn to know him more to understand why he's acting that way.

I think leaving him alone is the best option for you, my friend. He's not worth it if he is acting that way. I was in a similar situation but I've decided I've had enough so I stopped sending emails or making phone calls. If he talks to me again, then good, but if not, then definitely not my loss. No lady should put up with this kind of a man if he never made any clear declaration of his intentions. We,ladies, should not be made to look like love-stuck dolls stripped of all reason. SO, girl, I think you should leave him alone and make him realize what he just lost. Feel free to exchange thoughts with me, my pleasure...

If he can't make time to see you and assure you of his feelings, then he isn't worth the worry and stress. I think that you should let him be, and if he makes efforts to talk to you, then perhaps he does want to be with you. You shouldn't be doing all of the work, honey. A relationship has to consist of equal effort of both parties.