my neighbor died because of jealous

Japan
March 25, 2010 8:46pm CST
my family was very poor when my close neighbor have a bit of good life then us and she always look down to my mom i often hear she said bad word that hurt my mom feeling i was still small that time but i remember my mom said to me ani...if you bigger would you promise to make our family happy and live better i am tired being poor she told me then when i am bigger i do work outside country and make a lot of money i send them all to my mom as my manager,then we building the house,eat good food even buy car for my father my neighbor was jealous and try hard to make everything the same but is never happen cause is really different now,she thinking too much not even can eat that make her body skinny and was happen year over year all of her family hate my family one day i back home after 5 years stay in Japan for making money the first time i saw her and the first time she came to me shake my hand and say sorry to me i don`t even know what going on and she said sorry for what she said for hurting my mom feeling all this time and she said was so tired of being jealous in the next day she was died in hospital cause long time ill and stress and now her family still anger or hate our faamily caause they think we all make her died i feel sad some how:(
4 responses
• Hong Kong
26 Mar 10
all of us make mistakes, so i can say we should only do that if someone make us angry and feel very sad of what they made we only defend ourselves in the below standard of cruelty and causing distress to everybody. When we make goodness then we also get back good treats..
@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Jealousy is really a bad thing, but i guess none of us didn't felt this one way or another. Too much of it really creates bad effect just like what happened to your neighbor. I feel sorry for her and the rest of her family. But i think you commit no mistake because your family have done nothing wrong to anyone. Let's pray for her soul....
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Your neighbor was materialistic and coveting on things that their other neighbors have. We were reminded on the 10 commandments to not covet. Important thing she said sorry to you, but her family is now doing the same. So it was really not good to hear that. Do not show anything bad to your neighbor even if they are belittling you. Do good to them that show you bad. Do not repay evil with evil, but always show goodness and God will be pleased.
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
jealous is a normal feelings of every individual. but tha sad is on how to contro your jealousy towards other people. because your the only one who will suffer, and it can affects your daily life even to yourself towards to other. jealous and anger is almost the same but the difference is if you have jealous to got anger to that person, and you can think always bad thing for them. we should have to practice to forgive to others, and accept the facts of what we have..