its ok to say no
March 29, 2010 2:38am CST
Its hard to please all people all the time. this is about decision that we have to make it right for our own benefit. If we would let them do what they want for us we would burned out easily. I prefer to say no if it really gets conflict in my priority.
29 Mar 10
We can never please everybody even if we our best. People will always sees wrong in us even if how much we try to be perfect. We can't be perfect to anyone,so,never expect to please everyone. Saying "no" is fine,at least,it's being honest to whom we are dealing with,and we are also being honest to ourselves. Our best is not enough always,let' accept that,if we give one finger,people want to take our whole arms,and when we gave them our hands,they want to take our whole arms.