What is the best medicine for a heart break?

Hi, I agree to that. Best medicine for a heart break is forgetting indeed, but not by mere escaping from the facts. The strength that is lost can only be regained by facing the reality and then forgiving and at last forgetting the whole thing. This process is difficult, but it surely makes you stronger. Realization:First step is to realize that you have lost something. Its okay. Its normal. Realize and acknowledge your sufferings, as there is no use denying that. Escaping from your own feelings is just covering up the reality. Sense the loneliness but admire the freedom. Feel the sorrow but believe its normal. See the whole inside you, don't turn your back on what is true. You are alone, so will you be until the end of your life. All that is lost was never yours. All that you gain will not remain yours. Forgiving: This is very crucial step. One shouldn't go to the next step until one completes this one. In this stage you realize that as a human being you are always imperfect, and so is everybody else. You have every right to make mistakes and so had your ex. May be you are thinking now that he/she was not being justified. May be you are thinking "How could he/she do this to a person who loved him/her so deeply?" Well, even if you think he/she has hurt you pretty badly and did something that was rude, do please forgive him/her. Acknowledge her faults and forgive her for her ignorance. What else do you call it? An act of mere ignorance when a person gives more importance to other things than love. You also forgive her for all he/she said and done. Then, slowly try to forgive yourself. Don't say you were perfect. For, that would be another violation of truth. Acknowledge all the mistakes you have done, all the harm you have done to yourself and then forgive yourself. You can only elevate yourself higher than your ex by forgiving him/her. You are better because you could forgive. She did not forgive your mistakes, so she has already failed in this test. Forgetting: This is the next logical step. Once you have completed the first two steps, this one should come automatically. In this stage you find that in spite of being alone, you have something that you still own. Something that was never lost in the process. There is always a positive side, like there is a negative side in every thing. There will be light as long as there will be darkness. You choose to go with the positive side of it. You start believing for sure that this have increased your strength tenfold. For What doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger. After this you regain your confidence. Your pain is loosing its sharpness. You have started to forget the bitterness. You had an experience, but stay with with conclusion only. Get rid of the memory and details. After that do everything that you yourself has mentioned here. But, that would not be so important anymore, as now you have grown strong from inside. You have turned invincible. Welcome to myLot. God bless you

How can you forget the thing that made you most happy? I think that mending a broken heart heals naturally... YOu don't have to forget anything. Forgetting means forgetting the things you also enjoy doing. I know that it is hard. It is an experience. We LEARN from it..It maybe hard to rise and stand up again. The best thing to do is find yourself and know yourself again, Love it more...

for me the best medicine for me are God, family, friends and mylot. because I need someone who can talk to and give an advice to me in all my fails

Hi passing by to say, that the best medicine for that is laughter.... As you laugh on it, you will soon forget it... cheers

I think that the best medicine for a broken heart is TIME !!

I have had my heart broken many times. The last couple times have been from the same girl. Actually, time is the best healer. Going out with your friends and getting out is good to. Time heals all wounds. If, this was a long term relationship, it will take more time. You are not alone, if that gives you any comfort, i m going through the same thing. The best way , i have found in these times, is to keep busy in what you are doing - work, study, concentrate on bettering yourself - exercise - do not dwell on would have - should have and just let go of the down thoughts and think positive that you are worthy of love.

do we have the right medicine for heartbreaks?! i think there are no perfect cure for those suffering, and mending a broken heart. I think there are those that need a lot of time. I still believe that Time heals all wounds.

well, friend ... cure for a broken heart that's just one that is forgotten. Initially it must be difficult, but over time will be used and will continue to forget

i think one of the medicine for heart break is moving on..lol